Can somebody help me out?

[Anonymous]

I haven't had my period in about 3-4 months and I'm irregular it comes and goes whenever it pleases, and I've taken bout 2 pregnancy tests monthly and all of them turned out negative. I'm already a mom of a one year old but I never felt like this before... my one friend said it could be from stress, my other said it might come even later cause I'm irregular, but the longest I've waited for it to come was 4 months. I don't trust going to walk ins cause I always believe they're wrong, my son was a few weeks old, I can't really remember cause it's been a while. but anyways, my son had the same problem as me when I was a baby except I had teterology of fellot and my son had a vsd repair, and I went to the walk in clinic before I went to the emerg. they said he was perfectly fine, because he was a month premy, they said his color is pale cause he's still developing and his finger nails were dark dark purple and blue because he's not fully developed, no other mothers had this problem. so I went to the emerg. and sure enough he needed surgery as well, so I don't ever want to step into a walk in clinic again.

The day I found out I was pregnant. I realized my period hasn't come after 6 months and after it said positive I was already 4 months. If what I'm asking doesn't make any sense feel free to correct me, I haven't slept all night and it's 8 am

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+1 y

Or am I just over reacting and getting impatient?

[creative_hairdresser]

u could have pcos go to ur regular doctor and ask to get hormone tests and internal ultra sounds i have pcos n i get my period wen eva it feels like comming n it may last a day a week a month what eva its so irregular its not funny but yeah id go to ur regular doctor and ask for tests n get it checked out because if pcos it can be regulated by weight loss or the pill

[Asker]

I'm not on the pill though I have copper IUD & I don't have a regular doctor anymore he retired... plus my family doc I don't trust... it's awkward cause he's my god father and sure enough him and my parents always talk and I don't feel like making my parents worry about me when they already have so much on their hands and yes irregular is not fun, the most I had it was a week and a half straight & I was on vacation so it sucked lol :(

[creative_hairdresser]

ask ur friends for a good doctor or go to the hospital n get a gyno to check u out do u have pains in ur stomach at all?

[creative_hairdresser]

and try going on the pill coz it might help even out ur hormones google pcos it stands for poly cystic ovary syndrome if u have any of the signs get checked out right away coz it can cause diabeties and infertility

[beautifulangel76]

Stress can cause you to miss your period. If you have changed what you eat or have started exercising that cause that too. It seems like you may be stressing and maybe you could try making a doctor's appointment

[Anonymous]

Oddly enough you don't mention your sexual activity history.

[Asker]

common sense, y would I be worried about being pregnant. if I'm not having sexual activities hense, i've been taken 2 tests in the past month

[Opinion Owner]

But knowing how often will dictate the odds of pregnancy. It will also give insight into any possible STIs you may have contracted because we don't know how many partners you've had. It's not "common sense".

[Asker]

Nope, no partners just my baby daddy and ex. I've only hooked up with 2 people in my life and my ex we were both virgins and my baby daddy always used condoms before... our baby was planned

[Asker]

I mean, nope not that many partners

[Opinion Owner]

2 partners within the last 6 months? Since it seems you are 4 months late. How frequently?

[Opinion Owner]

What is the name of your IUD?

[Asker]

Just forget about it -.-

[Opinion Owner]

I have.

[ALNMAY]

I don't wanna scare you, but it could be cancer in your ovaries, or as simple as the way you eat. In any case you should go see your gyno.

[Asker]

well, I have a personal work out trainer at a gym to help me loose weight and they cleared my junk fridge and filled it with just healthy dieting stuff cause I forced her to force me to do anything to loose weight, but then again I am pretty stressed raising my kid on my own with sooo many fears I'd rather not list them all on here

[ALNMAY]

I get you. I used to have crazy periods too and just this past year I've begun to start like clockwork and I'm pretty sure it was from letting go of some stress I knew I couldn't control, and changing how I eat.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

I would thing two negative tests mean you are not pregnant, go to your gyno

[Asker]

Thanks I guess... but I mostly need a girls oppinion. not to be mean or anything but you're not a girl you wouldn't understand

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Having been through two pregnancies, I understand how pregnancy tests work. I grew up with a mom and two sisters, I have a wife and two daughters. Yes, I've never been pregnant nor have I had a period. But I understand the biology.

Good kuck