I have been Bulimic Since 1987. I started recovery in 1999. I know a decent amount about anorexia even though Bulimia and Anorexia are very different disorders. when I was bottomed out in 1998 I started looking online for help. I found SWFED. com. that website saved my life. I urge you to, at the very least, get onto that website. Learn. Sign up for the forumns so you can post questions. Anorexia can kill you quicker then any other disorder.
I would urge you to talk with your parents. Although unlike bulimia, anorexia is much easier to spot and unless they are the type that do not pay any attention to you, it is something they should have caught by now.
You need to see a Eating Disorders therapist. They will recommend a Nutritionist as well.
This is the big picture stuff. Feel free to message me if you want to get more in depth about it.
very quickly it your organs start shutting down.
I sincerely hope you will get help and fast. Just because you made it this long does not mean something cannot happen quickly. And with women you risk damaging your insides which could also affect your ability to have children later in life.
I wish you all the luck. Please do not hesitate to message me. All those ticks your have, all those things you do that you think only you know about... those of us with ED's have done them all and know what your going through. You will find that out when You find a support group near your house. Usually at a local hospital.
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Tell me what you think the point of eating is. Tell me what food represents. Tell me what you think optimal eating would be like.
I don't know that much about anorexia (you should see a professional) but I do know something about self-image and health. I never believed people when they said I was pretty or beautiful and now almost without exception every time I look at old pictures I see what they saw. I wasn't as healthy as I wanted to be but I was still beautiful. It's taken me a while to accept truly *wanting* to be beautiful (long story involving emotional abuse) but once I did and once I started believing people, and feeling comfortable in my body, I was able to look at old photos without cringing.
It can be hard to learn to love yourself. But there's an Oscar Wilde (?) quote that says "Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken." Learn to value your own opinion over strangers' and listen to those who love you.
Hope this helps!
Don't worry you will always be wonderful. Everyone is wonderful no matter what. You can fight this battle. If you can't fight for those how can't and those who did but failed. Fight hard! You have many people with you, family, friends, online and those that you don't know that are praying for you. Fight and keep fighting to win.
& when it is all over you will be able to say, "I won and nothing can stop me now!"
I wish you the best of luck!
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Your secret best friend from another town ;)
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You need more help than from your boyfriend, let's be real here. Talk to your parents or have him help you do it. Or, say you feel sick and go to the doctors and talk to the doctor. They will help you. You could also go straight to therapy, which is great and maybe the easiest solution. I've had anorexia since I was a teen. I'm 30. It just sticks. I go in and out. Therapy is a must. Get past this. You can do it!
Hey, Stay Strong ok? Try complimenting yourself once ever morning. Tell your boyfriend. It is harder to go through it alone. xo
I'm 17, 5'7 and am about 112 lbs so you're doing alright I guess. I had anorexia when I was 12-15 sort of. I don't mean to sound negative, but I think that if you've been anorexic, it takes a long time to fade out of the restrictive dieting and excessive exercise regime after you embed it in your brain that 'food is the enemy'. Since I was twelve, I've been embarrassed and insecure about my body and still am today.
Keep tryingThere are programs where they help you, and they really help
I think you could possibly go to a theraphy and talk about your feelings and what to do. It got me through depression and eating disorder.
You should be proud of yourself, you are smart and strong. And your boyfriend sounds like a really nice guy.I'd find a therapist to talk to. really the best at getting to the root of the issue and then suggesting ways to work through it
Where is the anorexia pamphlet? Does anyone have that image?
you have to continue trying.
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