Finally slept with a guy friend I've known for a while: if he doesn't text me in a week is it safe to say he isn't interested in anything more?

[Anonymous]

Finally slept with a guy friend I've known for a while: if he doesn't text me in a week does it mean he isn't interested in anything more than being just friends?

Yes

No

Other: state your detailed opinion.

[knightengale]

Depends on many things, how did it go when you slept together and how has his week been since.

Best way is to message him ask how's it's doing and how's his week been. . If he's distant etc then you know.

It's equally possible he's not wanting to come on too strongly and giving you space.

[Asker]

I wish I could read minds lol I might wait til this weekend to text him. But I'm scared to, I don't wanna come across as needy or anything. Maybe it's best I wait for him to.

[KidInk4]

It's safe to say you two are no longer "just friends", no matter what happens

[knightengale]

It's possible he is fearing the same thing :-)
If you want to speak to him, then speak to him. Far less stressful for know than to over think. Easier said than done of course :)

[Asker]

well he's the one who stopped texting me last, so I feel like it means i should wait for him.. right?

[knightengale]

He could be thinking the same fear. Best to show strength and confidence by just saying hello and seeing how he is. That will be a far less stressful thing :-)

[MadeInAmerica]

Yes that he just wants to be friends or regrets it because he didn't want to complicate the relationship so he is avoiding you for now.

[Asker]

So I guess if a week passes I'll know that's the case..

[Iron_Man]

Thats what happenes when you give it up to a guy your not in love with they scored the challenge is over and they move on

[Asker]

That's not always the case though. I've known him for 2 years. But we weren't ever super close or anything like that.

[Iron_Man]

Once you give it up to a guy that does not love you they walk. They have gotten what they want and they move on to the next girl that they don't love as well and want to score like a notch on there belt. Make a poll on here about that and see the results then.

[Asker]

He liked me before though it seemed. He would tell me he thinks I'm different and unique and likes smoking with me. So I think you're brainwashed by mysogynist bullshit. That's not always true.

[Iron_Man]

I am not brain washed I tell it like it is, guy friends dont love you. He scored he moved on do you see him calling you up now? Make your poll and call me in when ready

[Octavius]

Maybe he's waiting for you to text him.

[Asker]

Maybe but the last time we texted was the day after for a little bit. And then he didn't reply. So I don't know.. If be didn't respond I might as well wait for him to text me.

[Octavius]

Maybe he's busy who knows. You could find out by texting him ;)

[Asker]

Hell nah, I don't wanna embarrass myself ha

[knightengale]

You don't embarrass yourself by wanting to know where you stand. That is the mature and adult thing to do. Worst case you know it's nothing. Best case he is falling in love with you and is not wanting to freak you out :-)

[Socca_Playa_22]

it means he just wants to fuck you

[Anonymous]

It means it sounds like you were a one night stand

[Asker]

I've known him for two years and we have made out before. The other night was the first night we had sex, I'm waiting a week to see if he contacts me.

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like a one night stand