Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend isn't attracted to me?

[Anonymous]

Hey... So, when we first met, I was overweight. I sent him a picture of my tummy and he said I looked beautiful and that he would love me regardless of what I looked like, but I didn't believe him. Since then, I've been on a strict diet and exercise schedule, and I lost tons of weight, but I'm still insecure with my body. Sometimes he brings up the fact that I used to be "fat" or "chubby", or that I am still "chubby" and it really hurts my feelings, but I always keep my mouth shut. I'm afraid to even do things with him in the future because I am so secure with my body. Help please?

[billy_young]

Boyfriends and girlfriends BOTH choose to get together and every day they BOTH choose to stay in their relationship. He is choosing to be with you.

But, if you have concerns that he doesn't find you attractive because he sometimes calls you chubby then you have 2 choices:

1. Tell him that you don't like it when he calls you chubby and says that you used to be fat. Ask him to stop saying it.

2. Ask him to tell you honestly what he thinks of your figure. If you do this, you have to be prepared to accept whatever he says as the truth.

Do remember that he might think you are slightly chubby AND find you attractive. Not everybody likes thin women. Some people use the word 'chubby' as a compliment just like some people use 'thin' as a compliment. Everyone has different tastes so don't worry that if you are slightly overweight nobody will ever like your body.

[Supastar10]

Tell him exactly how you feel.
Tell him it's a sensitive spot in your heart with weight and you've worked hard and that if he can't accept you, then he will have to move on or something.

[Anonymous]

im sure he's attracted to you, he's dating you!

[Anonymous]

When it hurts your feeling , you are supposed to let him know. Otherwise , he will keep saying it because he doesn't know that he is hurting you.

[Anonymous]

Cheat on him. That will put that bch in his place REAL quick.

[elamn123456]

tell him how you feel, you get me fam?

[Asker]

Lol yeah