I'm emotionally distant?

[Anonymous]

Anyone out there who knows what I'm talking about? I've been really depressed, hurt, cheated on, lost my best friend, taken a lot of shit, lost my dad, lost friends and even though I should be moving on I can't. I'm still hanging onto where I was three years ago but it's NOT the same, I can't accept it and it makes me so angry. I am angry all the time and I don't like people anymore. Those close friends I have says I'm acting like a complete douchebag but I can't help it, I don't feel sadness just anger. I cried the whole day yesterday when I let in some feelings but mostly I'm just pissed. I don't feel bad for others either? I've hurt my friend and I just don't care. I don't want to be this way I want to be soft and love again.

[Avenuewriter]

I'd juggest speaking to a counselor, if you aren't already. I know life can be a real bitch, this year has been one personal disaster after another for me so I'm in a similar boat. Getting the help you need and working on making yourself better should be priority number one. Also, try to find things you enjoy doing even if it's just taking a nap or treating yourself to something expensive. Keep strong and hang in there.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

You should get some counseling cause only professional can hep you
all i can say is the areas where you need to improve try working on them areas
i know it's easier said than done I do believe your holding lot of bitterness and
punishing yourself this happens lot.

[Anonymous]

Aww so sorry you feel that way 😭

Depression can be so debilitating, without professional help you will progressively get worse. Try to keep your mind occupied by keeping busy.

Pain is 10% of what happens to us and 90% of how we think.

Pain is inevitable but suffering is optional

[singlebee]

For that you have to accept whatever hurt someone has caused you and then think that you deserve a lot better