Why do people think that people diagnosed with eating disorders use it as an excuse/for attention?

[Anonymous]

I'm just curious. I was diagnosed with binge eating disorder a few months ago. Yes, I realize that I don't have self control and I have no problem admitting to that. I gained 100 lbs from it, and now I'm getting treatment. I would starve myself/exercise for a few days in an attempt to lose weight then I would just start eating everything in sight after because I felt weak/tired. I always thought I could stick to starving and exercise but it didn't work and I was stuck in this cycle for a long time. It's something I'm so ashamed of and I am starting to pick up good habits but why do a lot of people think people who are DIAGNOSED with an eating disorder use it as an excuse or do it for attention?

[coconutelixir]

Because they don't understand it and think the person has complete control and isn't doing their part. Sorta like a blame game. When it comes to certain common problems such as acne, anxiety, and overeating... everyone knows what it's like, and a lot of people are lucky to help themselves overcome it. Some people will suffer from it harder than anyone else to the point where it's not in their control anymore and they need help. A lot of people don't understand this, especially if it relates to psychiatry.

Don't listen to the haters and try your best to educate. If it doesn't work.. let it go and just worry about getting better. It isn't easy to struggle with a real problem that people don't think is real.

[meatballs21]

To your garden variety asshole, all mental illnesses are 'all in your head' and are therefore something you can just get over if you actually want to.

[Asker]

I respect your opinion and see where you're coming from.

[SirenDep]

Many people are misinformed about eating disorders

[Anonymous]

Because they whine about it.

[Asker]

I can understand why you think that. That's why I rarely talk about it and I'm changing it.

[Opinion Owner]

That's good!