Do you get frustrated when someone puts you down?

[Anonymous]

I've been going to the gym for the past year and have gained 10kg. And just yesterday I was talking to a guy about hitting my 100kg deadlift on my 5x5 program and some nerdy guy tells me do you even lift.
Kinda pissed me off like who is this bitch trying to put me down for no apprant reason.
How do I deal with this? I honestly get so angry when anyone gets put down for actually trying to make a effort to change their lives

Yes very much

I do but I can handle it

No I loose my shit

[Cherokeehp]

First off I'm pretty sure that was a joke. Second off to answer your question, no. I kinda don't get angry ever unless someone steals from me, lies to me, physically harms me, or says something incredibly racist, sexist, etc. If I lost my shit every time somebody said something rude to me I'd be in a fight all the time. I've been called a dyke, a boy, ugly, weird, a bitch, a prude, a fat ass, and more. It doesn't even hurt my feelings anymore.

[menina]

Yes, I do but I can handle it.
Sometimes it's hard to not loose your shit, but I learned how to deal with it.

[Asker]

How do you handle it?

[menina]

I just tell to myself : "Their opinion doesn't matter. They have no right of putting me down, so they can go to hell and stick their opinions on their ass!"

[jason15300]

Don't worry about him, does he lift? Probably not. Does he same goals or aspirations? No he probably is keyboard warrior trolling people online and spewing hate, while your actually doing something with your life. And as for me getting angry, I only get angry at somethings but I can usually handle it

[ExoSchmo]

When someone does something like that to me I am relentless at insulting them and throwing all the words back, and more. I'm not like super smart, but I can think fast on my feet so I can think of insults pretty fast. Just roast them in every way possible!

[fermatote]

Be a cool guy. Just smile and leave those dickheads. Don't let this gratutious provocations burn you.

[MikiKonoe]

I always feel down when somebody makes me insecure even though it's just a joke. Can't help myself feeling that way. However, I also try to make myself feel better to think that he/she is not an important person in my life. This thinking sometimes works, sometimes doesn't.

[AhGojira]

You sound like a girl that didn't get attention for dyeing her hair.

[Asker]

It seems that I did get attention it was just a negative one from someone that just happend to be there and giving it for no apprant reason. I'm all good for banter but when ur trying to say hey look what I just accomplished and a random says shit Its kinda a dicky move don't u think

[AhGojira]

Nope. I never pushed myself athletically for approval. It was always the personal challenge that had me addicted. It feels good to overcome, to win, to suffer through but endure, to persist, to not give in or give up... I do it for me and me alone. If people like it or hate it, it doesn't affect me positively or negatively.

[CHRIS11796]

Of course it sucks but you move on find a girl who is worth the wait and once you do it's an awesome feeling if someone doesn't want you it's their lost not yours.

[anonman32]

no, it makes me want to be competitive more. it makes me feel like my success will be my revenge and they will have to shut up then.

[Touglyforfemales]

When someone puts me down their just being honest. I'm a loser.

[Asker]

Dude u can't say that, I hate dick heads that do this shit

[Touglyforfemales]

Do what shit?

[Jan1ssary_]

Just go beat his ass, show him who is the man bruh.

[Chadette]

Nah, man I don't get frustrated. It doesn't effect me.

[babeeeone]

Yeah I hate when people put me down, especially in the form of sarcasm

[Anonymous]

No I tend to loose my shit very fast

[Anonymous]

No I loose my shit