Does gaining weight affect how your partner sees you...even if he says he loves you no matter what?

[Anonymous]

i was size 7 when we first met now I'm 13...

[Anonymous]

Having drastic weight gain throughout the course of a relationship can MOST DEFINITELY cause a guy to not be as attracted to his significant other. A few extra pounds might not be the difference, but a few extra SIZES can make you seem less attractive to him.When you two got together, he must have been attracted to you physically, if not chances are he wouldn't have approached you. So yeah, changing that physique for the worse can cause him to be less attracted to you now. It happened to a friend of mine so it is very much possible (but now she's back to her size and has actually kept some boob weight and looks better than she first did so his loss lol).

I'd suggest you begin working out and lose some of that extra weight. He's still with you so that means he still has feelings for you so don't be too down. Just try to get back down to your original weight. You'll feel better about yourself and you'l look better, too. More confidence = less self-consciousness. Less self-consciouness + More confidence = More sex appeal.

Best of Luck =)

[Asker]

Thank you

[Opinion Owner]

Glad to help =)

[ambermarie]

if he truly loves you he won't care!

i have a billion and one stretch marks all up my tummy and saggy t*ts (from havin a baby) and my man says he don't care, it don't change the way he looks at me or feels about me

[Longshot]

Might make the guy think you don't care about yourself or your health. Also we all want a partner who, in our own eyes, looks good. A little weight gain is OK here and there, but otherwise you're not helping yourself.

[Anonymous]

yeah a massive weight gain is not going to be a good thing in a relationship , maybe you should consider joining a gym or taking up walking / jogging maybe ? or changing your diet

[Asker]

So he may not be attracted to me anymore?....

[Opinion Owner]

Well not necessary , just maybe not as much or maybe annoyed you put on weight . it really depends what his standards in girls are or what appeals to him

[gravygirl]

It certainly can. I know I've heard guys in my office complain about how their wives got fat on them. I guess some guys might not be like that.

[mf-ibmj]

to me, Yes..

some people might not, but I care.

maybe because am thin ?!

[Anonymous]

yep it does, not only looks but how he gets to it...