How to completely drop thoughts about having a girlfriend?

[Matthew988]

It is very hard for me to get a girlfriend, but I am always thinking about girls and relationship and so on... How to get away of this thoughts so I would be happy and wouldn't think about any potential girlfriend and relationship with her not even for a minute in one day?

[martyfellow]

Get involved in something else, a major project that will take all your time and energy. it could be sports, a school assignment, or volunteering at a homeless shelter. Something new and vital, that will take all your attention for hours at a time and leave you tired after the several hours. Mentally tired, I mean. Just gettting physically tired won't free you from all the fantasies you're having.