My cousin was like that. We literally grew up together, she's almost 2 years older than me and It happened so that I was always skinnier than her and It made her feel insecure. In her eyes I had an ideal body and she dreamed of that, but In my eyes she also had a beautiful body. I can't even count guys who liked her (they were numerous) and for them she was and still is an ideal woman. But she was never content of her body, because she thought It was far from ideal. Though the truth is that there doesn't even exist such thing as an ideal body.
If you are not as skinny as some other girls, It doesn't make you fat. Remind, maybe there's someone in your life, someone like me in the life of my cousin (sadly), someone whose "ideal" body makes you feel insecure. And think for yourself, is their weight really that important in their success with guys? Stop comparing yourself to others, that's what I learned from the childhood.
I want to say that beauty of your body, your self-worth and your prettiness is not defined by your weight but how you see yourself. That's a secret, If you are happy with yourself others will also find you attractive.
The only way to accept your body is to stop comparing yourself to others.
What about my cousin, She was 164 and 65 kg and after hard working and exercise she is 50 kg now. I am veryyy happy for her. Though She is skinny now, she lost that pink cheeks that suited her so much. In all honesty she was better at 55. But do you know what's her next goal? She wants to be 45, I am 48 and she wants to be skinnier than me, that's her lifelong dream and I understand hers, just It is pathological already, If she gets 45 she will stay only bones. I tell her that now she's even skinnier than me, I want to make her feel happy, but she insists that I have different body type and that she still needs to lose weight. I really feel sorry and kind of guilty, even though that I shouldn't be.
The same thing will happen to you If you start seeing yourself as you see it now. I look at your pic now and you are beautiful, Ohh If only you knew how you can drive guys crazy with your body, you wouldn't worry about such things.
I was very skinny, like 160 and 45 and It can have its minuses, seriously. Don't think of it as something ideal, skinniness is far from ideal. Value your body, love your body the way It is, remember there are tons of guys who dream of a girl like you :)
Look in the mirror and smile miss, you are pretty.
I think one factor which leads to that thinking is your age, at tween, you're being more (too) concern about your appearance which is normal for this age as your hormones are changing. However, it not too hard to learn to love yourself. I'm 162 cm tall and I'm 79 kg and I'm still fine, some guys still interested in me so don't be obsessed. Another thing that helps is keep yourself busy so you have no time to think about this and stop watching modeling or Victoria's Secret angles in case you can't put it out of your head:)
Hope that help
You listen to your family and friends as a start. If you think they say it because they care about you, then show a picture of your body to us. Then you get an opinion of absolute strangers, no emotions attached.
Anyway, Women who aren't skinny are attractive, and also way easier to cuddle with, y'all so soft, no bones!
There will always be guys that love skinny girls, and there will always be guys who love less skinny girls
Well you don't look fat in your profile photo and at 59kg you hardly weigh anything at all. I've lifted suitcases heavier than you, lol. Seriously, you shouldn't get obsessed with the body image propaganda perpetuated by the media.
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you should hang around actual fat girls
That is not fat, don't lose too much weight you'll end up to skinny and possibly develop an eating disorder. Sounds like a good healthy weight to me so do a check on your ideal weight/height and then be happy with it.
You have a normal and very healthy body weight for your height. If your fat content is within the normal range for a female, you even have the ideal weight.
First I'd like to say honey your not fat!!❤️ second I think it's hard for girls even boys to accept there body even if there fat or skinny because we live in are body and we notice every detail that we don't like about are body girl weir all in the same boat weather weir skinny or fat. I think the only way for you to be happy with your body is to accept it first then work on what ever you feel the need you want to work on. Your not alone girl always remember that!!!
You're 15. You will eventually stop thinking negative. I can't judge you because there no photo to determine if you look fine or overweight. But 59kg for 162cm is good, that's not fat.
You have a really cute face 😛
Anw, you re not fat but you kean to chubby for sure.
It can really easily be fixed but you re def doing it wrong.
You re seeing a specialist?
if you really think you are super fat then i believe you suffer from body dysmorphia. i think the best way to combat this is therapy.
You need to talk down Manhattan with a person as volumnous as I am. Yes. Once you walk with a real fat man, your phobia will go away.
is there a professional you can talk to? asking here will get you many different opinions and ones that aren't always helpful.
I can hear the Ho Ho's in your text. Christmas is near, get the sack on
You're my height and i think that's actually a healthy weight for someone at that height.
You have a BMI of 22.
I don't know how you look but it is enough to tell me that you are not super fat
18-24 normal
25-29 overweight
30+ obese (aka super fat)
If you dont like something about yourself, find someone who does. If you can't, then change it.
Advice 1: stop worrying
Advice 2: do more
At worst you could be classified as chubby, nowhere near fat tho.
ı can't say anything without seeing u but it doesn't sound bad
you are really kidding?
you are not fat at all
That's a normal weight. I'm 165 cm and 57 kilos.
You're actually like 10kg underweight... chill
i do the same thing just dont think about it
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