So about all these "What do guys/girls like..."

[Kripter]

And "They seem to only like..." do people ever stop to think that maybe you just have a sh*tty personality that no one wants to know you, and that maybe those "Skinny bitches" might actually have a real personality every now and then?

I see guys dating all sorts of girls , and girls dating all sorts of guys. And quite honestly, I see plenty of people who are a wee bit squishy in relationships.

So I'm just curious about all these "Why do guys only date skinny girls, I'm a bit squishy blah blah" Do you ever just stop to think that you're just too much of a bitch to get to know, or you're just too shy and don't put yourself out there?

o.o Just you know...curious.

[Killfest400]

I agree. Women seem to very much underplay personality as a factor of attraction. I like to think of the "shy" scenario for women like this:

Say I'm buying an apple from the grocery store. Looking at the apples that are available, I see all kinds of apples, big and small, some are beat up, some are rotten (it's a crappy store, bear with me), and some feel mushy and gross. Now, I personally want an apple that's big, ripe, and looks juicy. Unfortunately, the apples aren't going to tell me how they taste- I have to find that out for myself after picking one. As such, I'm going to pick out the best looking apple from the bunch.

If women don't make any effort to show off their personality, then they are playing the role of the apples. If you aren't the most gorgeous girl out there (and even if you are), you will have a much better chance of getting the kind of guy you want by showing off your personality and showing interest.

Really, if you just expect to sit back and have life come to you, then you deserve to be disappointed.

[Kripter]

Exactly! Very good analogy. :D

[suki248]

Um, ignore wanacot. It's not wisdom. It's good sense.

But yeah, you're right. I agree and sometimes I am tempted to answer like that (and I have on other sites), but I tell myself to just forget it and come up with a bullsh*t answer in some other way.

[Kripter]

Meh. Just tell them. It'll teach them. xD lol.

[20Questions]

Evil

[wanacot]

You're wise beyond your years!

[Kripter]

Oh annorite?

[The_Box]

In a world where common sense is regarded as wisdom....

[Kripter]

No kidding, that should tell you how little common sense we have. xD

[secondbestkiller]

Hahaha... I must agree.