Does weight matter?

[Anonymous]

So I am 5.3 ans I weigh 140 so I have a bit of a stomach and thicker thighs and I'm heavy chested do guys think this is gross to be carrying a bit of weight

[hisangel]

You are going to find in life that some guys don't like overweight girls and some guys only like overweight girls and some don't care either way. Seriously. Not just trying to make you feel better. It's like how some guys only want to date blonde girls and some only want brunettes and some don't care.

I'm never quick to blame "the media" for anything but I do think this is one of those times that girls really do get an incomplete view of men's thoughts. They act like no man would ever want someone over a size 2 and that is so far from the truth in real life. I have several friends who are overweight but they carry themselves very nicely and are very beautiful women. And they have never lacked men going after them. And no, I don't mean weird, creepy guys either. I mean good guys and some were freaking hot!

The only women I have ever seen have a problem with men, whether overweight or not, are the ones who are selfish, desperate, insecure women who give off a vibe that she either needs the guy to survive cause she is so desperate for love and attention OR that she doesn't need a man for anything so screw them. Those are the girls who I've noticed never get picked up on.

A kind girl with a good attitude will always have guys wanting to get a shot at her.

[snackeyg]

I don't think so. I actually like girls around that size over skinnier ones.

[ilovenastygals]

wow you hav a heavy chest...i would jus spend my whole life there