How do I make him happy?

[Anonymous]

I am 5 foot 6 and recently got down to 95 pounds for a dance audition. My boyfriend said he loves me so small and that he thinks id be even hotter if I lost 10 more pounds...last time I was below 90 pounds I required hospitalization (ironically enough it was right after we had sex)...i love him and he says he loves me...but yeah...idk what to do

[Anonymous]

I don't think a guy who wants you to sacrifice your health and happiness for his own pleasure is someone who really loves you. basically he wants you to be anorexic. it's not like he cares about your emotional health or potential health problems that you *will* incur from having such a dangerously low weight, he just thinks it's hot. I'm 5'7 and I cannot imagine being 95 pounds you must be extremely thin. And for him to want you to be 85 pounds at that height? I hope this question is a troll joke and not serious because if it is that's sad. I hate to be cliche and throw out the term "real men like curves" but seriously what kind of man wants his girl looking like a concentration camp survivor? I would be worried that he was secretly into guys or had a thing for little girls...

[Sarahgurl18]

Ru serious? whoa girl, 95lbs already is too small, especially for someone is 5'6''. Damn

i'm 5ft and 112 lbs and am not fat at all, I look good. If anything you probably need to gain 10lbs at least for real. You should never change yourself for ANYONE. You are what matters and how you feel about yourself. Maybe you should ask yourself "does this guy really care about me" because nobody in their right mind would ask their already underweight girlfriend to lose 10lbs that could be dangerous. wow

[Emperor707]

Please don't lose any mare weight. Your B.M.I is just above 15 which is less than normal and could have serious medical implications, more to for girls who need an amount of body fat to maintain certain balances in their bodies. You should consider adding a few pounds. If your boyfriend really loves you, he won't want to compromise your health. Please make the right decision and he should respect it.

[Desires]

Anyone who is wondering. 95 pounds is 43kg. That is VERY LIGHT. Shit. you must be skinny as. Don't do it. It's unhealthy.

And to the guy that referred to the BMI index. BMI is a load of crap and I can't believe anyone still uses it.

[ChicThis]

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't lose any more weight (if anything you gain some weight), honestly I think your boyfriend is just trying to control you and make you realize his unrealistic expectations...If he really loved you he wouldn't ask you to compromise your health under ANY circumstances...You are beautiful, and you deserve SOOO much better!

[Anonymous]

Don't lose any more weight. You are light enough. You actually need to gain weight because you are risking your health. Your boyfriend should not ask you to risk you health at all!

[Gregs]

im terrible at pounds but it sounds like your tiny enough