Aesthetics Vs Strength?

[JustCallMeLeon]

Assuming aesthetics (all looks and beach muscles) is zero and strength/power ( all strength and also chubby) is ten. 5/10 is a little bit of both. Which number would you prefer to BE and which would you like your SO to be?

^this is a strong guy with a belly. Probably an 8-9/10

^this is the classic skinny fitchick. All show and 2lb dumbells. Just looks. Maybe a 2/10.

^this is strong girl. doesn't care about looks or beach butt but she's strong. Perhaps a 9/10

^Fit guys but not strong. Beach bodies. Maybe 2/10

For example i believe im a 7. Stronger than i look but i dont have a six pack and i wish to stay this way. My girl is also a proud 5, with her love handles, nice bubble butt and strong figure.
So what do you people are, would like to be and would like your special one to be?

Updates

+1 y

Ratings are simple:
1/10 = all show no strength
10/10 = all strength no show

[Cody01]

get the best of both worlds. Bulk however you want for like a decade+ while powerlifting & incorporating some bodybuilding movements or days, then cut like 35-40lbs & get shredded as fuckkkk. Eventually want to pull at least 7 plates, bench 5 squat 6.

[SarahsSummer]

I don't really care about how much I can bench press. I just want to be healthy and look good. I'd like my SO be able to lift around 117lbs easily. To carry me over the threashold.

[SunsetLover]

I didn't understand the rating thing but I'd rather someone strong AND skinny, big muscles aren't necessary.

[JustCallMeLeon]

1/10 is all show no strength and 10/10 is all strength but no looks. Strong AND skinny can't happen. You prefer something close to aesthetics.

[SunsetLover]

Yes it can. The guy I'm seeing is a climber, he's strong and skinny. He most likely won't be able to carry 100 kg but still.

[JustCallMeLeon]

So its somewhere in between but skinny with strong grip.

[iamgah17]

3.5-4.5/10

[JustCallMeLeon]

You or what you prefer for your girl?

[iamgah17]

Me obviously lol

[JustCallMeLeon]

What about your SO?

[iamgah17]

Um idc tbh, She just has to be attractive in my opinion 😂😂

[JustCallMeLeon]

So just show. Ok thanks.