Dating a guy with puffy nipples? (gyno)?

[Anonymous]

Would you girls date a guy with puffy nipples (known as gyno)? I am average/skinny guy and just had hormone problem when I was younger which causes gyno. The fat is actually more in the nipple NOT around it. I have major self conscious issues and do not take top off which will affect relationships.

[Anotherweirdo]

I don't think it can be a problem. As always it depends if I like you or not.

[Asker]

So you wouldn't be put off if he was self conscious and didn't take is top off in front of you for ages? Not even at intimate moments?

[Anotherweirdo]

yeah. no problems.

[Lisagomes98]

For me it wouldn't be a problem

[Asker]

How? It will look ugly

[Lisagomes98]

Well, if you really like the person, things like that don't matter. At least for me

[Asker]

That is the thing a lot of girls near me aren't as nice as you

[Lisagomes98]

Don't worry, I'm sure you'll find a girl who thinks just like me ☺

[Asker]

I do try

[Asker]

How do I tell a girl though? Im so damn self conscious i have no idea how?

[Lisagomes98]

I think you should just explain her what happened to you (pretty much like you did here) and I'm sure that if she really likes you, she'll understand. And if she doesn't it just means you deserve someone better :)

[KadBitty]

It's not a big deal

[Asker]

It's so hard though as I try cover it up all the time

[KadBitty]

I know, you won't notice, but everybody is constantly trying to cover up what they perceive to be their flaws. You don't notice, because it's usually no big deal to anybody but the person who has it. People always see things doubly worse on themselves compared to how others see it. Trust me, if a girl likes you, that isn't something big enough to put her off.

[Asker]

i can't help it though, it doesn't help I use to get bullied but it was only for 1 day in school (im 19 now)

[KadBitty]

You got bullied for 1 day?

[Asker]

Yes in PE took my top off for first time.. got called names so never took it off ever again for the rest of school (2-3years)

[KadBitty]

But that's normal for school, it doesn't mean anything. Its just banter, boys do it more than girls too. They probably just didn't know it was a thing to you. Like if it wasn't your nipples, it would have been something else, don't take it personal.