How do I break this cycle?

[Anonymous]

It seems that I always attract girls that have f***ed up past. Not like minor things, like getting abused as a kid or raped or something traumatic like that. I just found this out about a girl I was interested in and she's the 6th girl that I've attracted that has a past like that. I seem to be a magnet for girls like that.

How do I break away from this cycle?

I want to attract a normalish single girl instead of girls that are almost broken beyond repair.

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I'm not nor have I ever lead a girl on. The girls with messed up pasts freak out because they get close to me and get scared then run.

[xochanelxo15]

Make sure you know what you want, don't go out with the girl if your looking for a regular. Stick to what you want, until you get it that's when everything will fit together. But you don't want to add on to her tragic pasttimes. If she is interested in you, tell her/give hints that she's only a friend. Try to get the background information on the girl, before you get too far; so it doesn't seem like you were leading her on.

[thatcrazygirl21]

When you meet a girl, you should try to find out her past information and tell her, [or leave hints] for her to know that you are only friends. It may seem that you are leading her on. Don't change on what you want for a girl. Nor date a girl just because she has a normal past. Keep your views of the "perfect girl," and you'll find her. Stay positive!