Guys, How do I know if he's genuine?

[Anonymous]

Iv been really close with this guy lately who I met online and he's admitted to have developed feelings for me and I feel the same obviously, we are planning on making things serious and meeting up, but iv tried my best to get back into shape (to the xtreme) and when he realized id been doing this becuase I was scared of what he thought, he said he doesn't think I should diet because he doesn't care for my weight, he thinks I am beautiful and perfect just as I am. How do I know he really means this? and that he's generally interested not just saying that to get sex or sumthing? (Im not obese or anything by the way I'm origionally curvy and proud but I had put on some extra weight from a contraceptive)

[rdr005]

Think of it this way. If he did care, he wouldn't have said anything. The fact that he mentioned it shows that he 1) noticed, and 2) wants you to feel comfortable. If you can feel comfortable in your own body and know that he cares for you just as you are, then things will flow a lot smoother as you won't have this negative energy floating around, such as wondering if you look good or if your hair is messed up, or what will he think if you do that or this. I think you should just continue your regular eating habits and such. If you want to lose a little weight gained form the c-ceptive, then just eat a little "healthier" or work out just a little bit to get to your previous weight... but don't take it to where you feel that you have to be skinnier than before then.

[Anonymous]

first tips are to not post anomoysoly show a pic of yourself so we can judge...

[Asker]

How do you do that?

[Opinion Owner]

you don't click the anoymous box when you post.

[Asker]

There I fixed it..i put up 2 pics 1 that I have of my full body nearly?

[Opinion Owner]

yeah I'd tapp it

[Anonymous]

he doesn't men that. he's just being nice

[Asker]

What would you know