Would you reject someone who smokes or does it depend on what they smoke? (Page 3)

[OlderThanILook]

Yeah I wouldn't date a girl that smoked anything. People under the influence are very annoying to be around and they always try to get you to start smoking too.

[DizzyDesii]

Omg yes its so annoying

[humpbackjack]

Yeah I’m not a believer in being ok with someone needing something to get by not even coffee but definitely not something that’s going to put them in the couch day after day I mean it ain’t none of my business unless we’re dating then I get a say

[DizzyDesii]

Yes im turned off by people addicted to coffee as well. But its not a dealbreaker like smoking for me

[supercutebutt]

You clearly indicated in your paragraph of nonsense that he DOESN'T smoke. So what are you asking? About the act of smoking or ingesting mind-altering substances?

[DizzyDesii]

You got a problem? Take it elsewhere. The point is, edible or not, its still something i dont agree with and i still consider it a form of smoking. You could chew cigarettes and i’d still call you a smoker. Your attitude is nonsense

[supercutebutt]

My grandfather used to smoke corn silk. So if you saw someone eating corn, would they be a smoker in your eyes?

[DizzyDesii]

You must be bored huh 🙃

[TheBootyChest]

I would reject it. I am not against people who want to smoke things, I just don't like the smell of things like that.

[DizzyDesii]

I dont like a lot about it

[TheBootyChest]

I read about the thing about dependency, but what else don't you like about it?

[DizzyDesii]

The smell. The way they look sleepy/high. They way they talk slow and drag out their words. The way they laze about. The way their teeth turn yellow. The way they feel its needed to relax or have fun. Im just against it in general

[Commander_Red]

I made the mistake of dating a guy who smokes. Never again. Not only will he taste like shit when you go to kiss him, but you gotta understand, it's an addiction, and they'll probably choose their addiction over you.

[DizzyDesii]

Exactly.

[katiesmuff]

I don't reject them and feel people can do whatever they want as long as it doesn't physically hurt others.

[DizzyDesii]

Have you never heard of second hand smoke

[katiesmuff]

I have and I also know who to remove myself from it!

[DizzyDesii]

So if they start smoking in the car while on a busy highway, you're just gonna jump out. Ok enjoy

[katiesmuff]

I would never get into a car where someone was or does smoke. They stink to high heaven all the time.

[NathanDavis]

I agree 99% percent... I don't like when someone has to alter their ~psique~ in order to feel like themselves... lol

[DizzyDesii]

Lol the smoke symbols

[NathanDavis]

~to get by~ that does not sound promising

[TheorionMage]

I've dated two heavy cigarette smokers and in truth, at times tongue-kissing them was like licking an ashtray---

[DizzyDesii]

Thats awful

[Phoenix98]

Only thing smoking wise I'd straight up reject someone for partaking in is drugs or weed.

Those are a instant deal breaker regardless of who you are no exceptions.

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Weed or drugs but not cigarettes? Lol smh

[DizzyDesii]

@ShaTTeredMasterpeace he likes his pipe lol

[Phoenix98]

don’t get the wrong idea I don’t like cigarettes either really.

But I do smoke cigars so I’d be a hypocrite if I said otherwise. Also drugs are a problem where I live so I’d rather my partner not be addicted to drugs/weed that more important then if they have a cigarette.

[jamesgoldman]

Depends on what they smoke cigarettes are classless but I'll date her if she smokes Havana's and I'm down with occasionally cannabis use as it has medicinal uses

[DizzyDesii]

Is a havana a cigar?

[jamesgoldman]

Cubans yeah

[TrueConfection]

I finding smoking of any kind repulsive. It's a huge deal breaker for me, even in friendships. 🤢🤢🤢

[DizzyDesii]

I agree. I ended lots of friendships

[Msputiton]

Eventhough i don't do drugs, if they smoke weed or eat it🥴 i wouldn't end things.
Anything harder they gets the boot

[DizzyDesii]

I see

[Heartache0405]

Not a fan of girls who smoke. People in general who smoke don’t really bother me but I wouldn’t want someone like that in my life

[DizzyDesii]

I bet

[douride2]

I couldn't date or be with a partner that smoked. It is a deal breaker for me.

[DizzyDesii]

I agree

[Luopio27]

I wouldn't but about 70-75 of all the girls I have ever liked in my life, are none smokers and have claimed that smoking is a deal breaker due to the smell factor.

[DizzyDesii]

Thats good

[Ironic_Method]

I reject all smokers because I can't stand the smell and usually the attitude people have towards weed.

Which greatly limits my dating pool here in Seattle.

[DizzyDesii]

I agree

[lovedejj_xo]

So I’m super big on teeth and having a nice smile! Smoking messes that up one and two I don’t like the smell even contact smell it gets in my hair and clothes. I would not date you.

[DizzyDesii]

Omg yes they teeth be yella af

[lovedejj_xo]

can't have that chileeeee

[Subarugirl]

Genesis 1:29
29Then God said, “Behold, I have given you every seed-bearing plant on the face of all the earth, and every tree whose fruit contains seed. They will be yours for food.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i’ll pass

[chaarvisingh]

For sure.
I mean drinking is fine if done in moderation.
But smoking is a big no.
Plus I would reject them solely because I quit smoking a long time back and I really can't see myself getting into this habit again!

[DizzyDesii]

I really dont even like alcohol but i try to tolerate someone who drinks on occasion

[ItsMeElliana]

I wouldn't date a man who smokes. unfortunately, but I would encourage him to stop and do my best

[DizzyDesii]

Yea its hard to get em to stop

[ItsMeElliana]

yes and not only that, i'd get affected by it too. I already detest the smell of smoke and tend to choke and feel dizzy smelling it from afar. and thats also getting in my lungs and damaging me too. so yeah. I'd just not want to be near that person