Is body positivity always that bad?

[Anonymous]

Is it stupid if a girl likes her body even more when gaining weight? Because I really enjoy my new body after gaining almost 40 pounds. I think i get a more attention from guys too then when i was slim. I really find much more advantages than disadvantages being chubby :D do why Is it do hated?

After 40 lbs gain

[ThinkFitness23]

This depends on preference and your natural size and shape.


To compare accurately and give my opinion would need to see a “before & after”.


My guess is your fairly tall and your fat is stored in your womanly areas, boobs, hips and butt etc, if this is the case which it seems to be you’ll get away with more than most as regards to weight gain because of the distribution which I have mentioned above.


Men look at certain areas but don’t think just because a man is looking he’s overly interested.


If I see a bigger girl with nice big boobs I may look but it’s not to say I fancy her, TBH quite often I’ll subconsciously think bigger girl bigger boobs but it’s just fat.

[jhl_x]

If it's about accepting his or her own body, no. The issue is that, specially regarding fat people, the idea and its supporters frequently step over well-known medical information regarding health problems derived from weight and fat excess because "fatphobia", and also shame people who don't find this attractive or comparable to what people consider attractive. If people do nothing like this, then I don't care.

[FictionalCharacter]

Just be yourself and happy. I’ve seen thick girls with skinny/muscular boyfriends.

I know I have dysmorphia and have asked guys what the standard weight is considered for a attractive woman. And they all responded with skinny.

But even when I was skinny I still couldn’t attract a guy. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Swifting_Through]

I think it is great that you love your body! That is the most important thing. by the way, i think you look great!

[Anonymous]

It's ONLY bad when it's affecting your health negatively. The problem is weighing too much doesn't typically start hitting yo till you 30's and 40's. There's nothing wrong with a few lbs. If you get regular exercise and eat right a majority of the time. That's good advice for anyone.

[Anonymous]

I dont think it’s stupid to like it. The gain looks great on you. You’re gaining beautifully. Its going to the right places. And besides. As long as you are happy and comfortable in your own body thats the most important part.

[Avicenna]

Like a lot of other things, in moderation it's probably OK, but it can be taken way too far

[Keepitreal007]

You look great! I personally prefer the added 40 pounds. Being to skinny is a turn off for me. Just be careful not to make it 80 or 100 😎

[BLP11520]

Look, I like your body. My wife has gone from like that to skinny, to that several times... men's weight changes too. I see 300 pound women which is a turn off. Be yourself

[Zolly99999]

You should be happy with yourself and body.. I think body positive is a fantastic thing. I never discourage anyone for it.

I really happy for you

[Anonymous]

The problem is when you are morbidly obese; and everyone tells you that you look good. Body positivity is good in moderation; but in today's climate it goes way to far.

[joeldalton]

yes, it's bad. You're unhealthy.

[In_Trance]

Gtfo troll