So I was hearing the other day that an hourglass figure is the sign of health and being fit..
I'm so not an hourglass figure in my eyes.. I see myself as more round than anything...
Should I be listening to that stuff about hourglass figure and aim to get my body more like that?
To say the least... It kinda made me feel bad about my body and think of myself as the fat girl.. :(
That is not a "sign of health" itself, some women are born with that shape or without, and there isn't much to do about that. Your weight won't matter, if you lose weight but haven't that shape then you won't achieve that. And plenty of women without hourglass waist dating men and having relationships, afterall. That is definitely not the reason why men select a woman, it has a very low priority. And even fat girls get dating options anyway, some guys love, or don't mind, fat girls. Although losing some weight would anyway give you better chances regardless, but that has nothing to do with the waist shape.
Anyway if you obsess about that you can try clothes that give the impression of a hourglass shape, like trenches with a belt you can tie so it will "force" that figure a bit.
But still, what attracts men is your face and your personality first and foremost. If you're all negative and unapproachable then no man will want the burden to manage a woman who already offers potential problems. Easy to talk with, caring, confident and funny are definitely things you can aim to, with higher priority than your waist (or even weight I guess).
I have a very noticeable hourglass shape and most of the time I don't valorize it but keep it hidden with large clothes. Because: I don't care. Qualities are others and you don't want to be selected for a body part I guess, that would allow getting objectified.
I have an hourglass and I am heavy set. I'm sure you are very pretty regardless of what shape you are.. stop it
Yes. Small waist shoukd always be the case. Even way overweight looks good with small waist.
Aim for anything that isn't obese and ugly looking.
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Nah. Just be yourself. I'm sure you'll land the man of your dreams without putting in any effort at all.
If that's what matter to you, then yes it is
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