Why am I so easily influenced?

[Anonymous]

I am so easily influenced and swayed in opinion and I don't want to be like that and ik it's dangerous, but I can't help it. This may or may not be part of this, but whenever I get mad about something that happened or is happening I get very intensely mad until randomly a switch goes off in my brain and I am completely calm and chill about the situation. EX: I am at a friends house, he's about to text to my crush that I like him, I immediately lunge at him and scratch him to try and get the phone, he sends the text, I punch him and angrily explain why that was so dumb, switch goes off, I sit down and say "actually its fine, I don't really care that much" and I'm calm for the rest of that time. I think it's starting to scare my friends a little.

[milkov]

That's not normal. But I'm also like that.

Actually, you're more afraid for conflict that's why you act that way. You don't want arguments because if you'll get angry consistently, you'll end up arguing with him and he'll be like "it's just a joke".

You probably felt in your life that you cannot control situations or you're powerless. That's why when times like these happen, you cannot do something about it and just give up to "chill".

[riverrat3]

Most of what you are feeling is part of going through puberty, it will subside eventually. At least you are aware of it and can possibly controll it a little

[riverrat3]

thanks for the mho

[ThrillSeeker01]

A friend of mine does things like that. She tells me it's her borderline personality disorder. But she's cool

[ThrillSeeker01]

Thanks for the MHO.

[jahaims]

You are insecure and or stupid