Does this guy have any serious injuries?

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There’s this guy on campus who always bullies people and it angers me that no one does anything about it. I recently saw him picking on someone and I finally decided to stand up to him. I stood in front of the guy being picked on and yelled at the bully to stop. The bully called me a “bitch” and started walking towards me, so I panicked and kicked him in the groin. He doubled over and started peeing himself with this look of shock on his face. I was surprised my kick had that effect on him because I'm a small girl and I only had flip flops on. Is it normal that he peed himself or did I seriously damage him?

zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

To urinate, one normally must be relaxed, the opposite of the effect of being kicked in the gonads, which usually causes tension. If the urination started after the kick, it could have been a serious injury to the bladder.

The other possible explanation involves our sympathetic nervous system, aka the "fight or flight response". This can cause someone to poop or urinate uncontrollably due to fear. Hence the cliches about being so scared you "shit your pants". There are some theories as to why this happens, among them that it will cause any predator to stop pursuing due to the foul smell, and the other that it makes you lighter, so you can run faster.

I find it somewhat hard to believe that a person would be so scared they pissed their pants after being kicked in the groin at school. But on the other hand, I have no idea what is going through this bully's mind, he seems like he might have a lot of fear and anxiety. A lot of times people who bully are being bullied themselves, or have a lot of mental stress and issues. So maybe he just got triggered and peed himself in fear.

Hopefully he gets the mental counseling help he probably needs. In the meantime, you did a good thing by setting a boundary for him to realize his behavior was unacceptable and potentially has some painful and embarrassing consequences if he messes with the wrong person, or the wrong person gets tired of his behavior. Many people allow bad behavior to go unpunished because they don't want to get involved, do something wrong themselves, or expose themselves to possible injury or legal issues. So bullies like this get away with a lot. It's also the problem with entitled "Karens" in our culture.

TLDR;

Does this guy have any serious injuries?

There is a possibility he has a more severe injury like a bladder dysfunction, the uncontrolled urination is an odd effect. But could have just been fear.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

LOL you messed him up!!! Getting kicked in the balls , is one of the worst feelings for a guy , why he peed himself, is beyond me? , I never experienced that before , after getting kicked in the balls , but I know it hurts like hell for sure, so that’s probably why he peed himself , a guy loses all control of his body , when he is kicked in the balls hard. I heard it can possibly do some serious damage to a guy’s genitals , but You shouldn’t sweat it , considering he came toward you , You were just using self defense, which you more than likely won’t get in trouble for , unless he wants to be a little bitch, and take you to court for his hospital bills , if that’s the case , then you are best to get yourself an attorney, if you are served with papers from the court , and just be honest and explain what occurred But the chances of that actually happening is very slim , Unless he is a little Bitch and wants to cry about it and make a mountain out of a mole hole from it But for the most part , just move on and put it behind you , you did the right thing by protecting yourself.

Jessica405 · Accepted Answer

In a worst case scenario, he could lose both nuts. Sure, if you kick, as in self defense, using an upward swing, it's gonna hurt like crazy. Don't kmow about the peeing bit.

JoePro_ · Answer

You probably didn't damage him. The peeing himself is probably just from the surprise of the situation, and possible loss of control in his muscles due to the kick. But injury? I doubt it. But good on you for standing up to him. Bullies need to be reminded sometimes that there are people out there who'll kick their butt. It's one of the few things that keeps them in line. He likely never had a parent tell him no when he was growing up. So anything that doesn't go his way is an "offense" against his entitlement and need to be the center of attention. Which also probably means he has some narcissistic tendencies. He needs therapy. But short of that, when he's acting like a douche, a kick here and there might do him some good.

Lliam · Answer

It's not usual for a guy to pee when his testicles get injured. That guy probably just had a full bladder when he got kicked.

I seriously doubt if you caused any permanent injury. But yeah, it does hurt a lot to get kicked in the balls.

Makeushiver · Answer

Be careful, most bullies become that way because of deep insecurity often with home where caregivers wetez/ are alcoholics and or addicts. Since they operate from death they may lash out at perceived threats.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I'm no doctor, but I've been kicked in the biscuits before whilst playing rugby. It hurts like hell, but no I never pee'd myself!

strateguy632 · Answer

no physical damage. also he was charging at you so you needed to kick.

exitseven · Answer

If he had to pee in the first place it is pretty normal. You most likely did not do any permanent harm. It took courage to stand up like you did.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

So how many people you've kicked in the groin cause I've heard the same results but different stories to this groin kick situation

Lynx122 · Answer

Probably you just aimed well and it hurt a lot. I don't think he'll be injured.

Wiredone · Answer

I highly doubt you did any damage. He probably just had to use the restroom but you startled him. I think he got what he deserved. Good for you for standing up to him. You're a hero

Anonymous · Answer

No, a kick in the testicles cannot seriously damage it, it is quite rare. especially if a girl kick the boy, because girls have weak legs in most of cases.

Anonymous · Answer

I've never heard of a guy peeing himself because he got kicked in the groin.😆 You must have a wide foot?😆

msc545 · Answer

That was a very stupid thing to do. The next time he sees you he is going to beat the hell out of you.

Anonymous · Answer

lol you just paved way for more bullies to bully the dude you were defending.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Good for you girl. He deserved it and hopefully he won't be able to jerk off for a few days

AngryCarl · Answer

Technically no one was injured because this didn't happen.

JacobJordan · Answer

Who cares. He got what he deserved

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Who cares he got what he deserves

Billlewis · Answer

I doubt it.

Iron_Man · Answer

Yeah sure 🙄

Does this guy have any serious injuries?

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