Is it actually bad that I’m happier overweight than being thin?

[Anonymous]

I was thin as a child and a teenager. I was bullied for being thin and some boys refused to look at me because I wasn’t curvy or thick like other girls.
In college I gained weight. I was from 122lbs to 175lbs. I moved around less and did more homework. I actually like my weight gain. I get hit on more than I did when I was thin my boyfriend said I looked better than I did when we had our first date at the college homecoming dance.
I was thin at 5’5 and 122lbs and my last year I ended up being 175lbs. It isn’t that bad. I’m a little overweight but this is what guys like. I’m happier overweight.
last week I checked my weight and now I’m 190lbs. Oh shit I’m almost 200lbs. I gotta bet back to 175lbs.

[Anonymous]

Well if you’re happy that’s what should matter. But will you be happy w that in 20 years when you’re not as healthy, getting sick more as a result of being overweight? Just something to think about. If you’re happy you’re happy but understand there’s consequences for choices we make. Physically you may be ok now but overtime, your health may take a hit. Plus you’re still pretty young but as you probably know most people gain even more weight.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It sounds like you just went to a healthier weight rather than overweight tbh

[Asker]

well healthy yes but I rather be happier and overweight than be thin and miserable. Nobody every thin person likes being thin.

[Nikki1989]

Don't let others tell you how to be. Just be the person you want to be.

[Asker]

I am. I’m happy about myself

[Sonorous]

I don't know.