A lot of people have told me im really ugly. And its making me depressed and suicidal. What should I do?

[MahmoudHassan1]

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, I'm really sorry to hear that people have been saying those messed up things about your looks. That's seriously not cool at all, and no one should ever have to deal with that kind of bullying. It's not your fault, and you don't deserve to be put down like that.

I know it's gotta be really tough and it's totally valid to feel depressed or even suicidal. Those kinds of hurtful comments can really take a toll on your self-esteem. But you gotta know that you are so much more than just your appearance. Your worth as a person has nothing to do with how you look.

The most important thing is that you don't let those jerks get to you. I know it's easier said than done, but try not to let their words define you. You're a unique individual with so much to offer the world beyond just your looks. Focus on cultivating your talents, passions, and the other amazing qualities that make you who you are.

And please, don't even think about hurting yourself. Your life has value, no matter what anyone else says. There are people and resources out there that can help you through this - you don't have to suffer alone. Reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or even a helpline if you're really struggling. You deserve support and compassion.

Stay strong, homie. You got this. Don't let the haters win. Keep your head up and keep being your awesome self. If anyone else tries to bring you down, just brush it off. You're way too good for that nonsense. Sending you all the positive vibes!

[Sonorous]

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[Sonorous]

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[sage2021]

Please don't give up on yourself. You mentioned that you might like to get married someday.
Well, my experience in my long life time is that people who aren't necessarily attractive can and do find someone similar to you in the looks department and fall in love and get married.
In fact they are even happy and love each other.

Sometimes people who are very attractive aren't necessarily happy. They have constant competition with other attractive people always wanting the person they are with. It can be very hard to constantly worry if the person you love is having other people wanting them too.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Maybe stop seeking external validation and focus on internal validation. Self-love practices and all that

[MahmoudHassan1]

But isn't it gonna greatly affect my entire life?

[MahmoudHassan1]

Are you there?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Your looks? Only if you let them

[MahmoudHassan1]

What do you mean? What if im for example interested in a very beautiful woman. But she dosent want me because im ugly?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Then she sounds like a shallow piece of shit to judge you for your appearance alone and that’s a bullet dodged on your part

[MahmoudHassan1]

Thanks, your right. by the way do you think im ugly? Please be honest

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I honestly could not care less. You look like a man

[MahmoudHassan1]

Hahaha, really? I had no idea

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I think your issue is you’re insecure and a little shallow, so you assume that shallowness is in everybody else because everyone thinks the same way you do. You don’t know how to value a stranger outside of their looks, let alone yourself

[MahmoudHassan1]

Im not shallow. Obviously i also care about a womans personality. But we men are naturally created far more visual than women. So obviously a womans appearance always plays a significant role

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I don’t think you realize how shallow it is of you to say that lol

[MahmoudHassan1]

It really isn't. Thats like its saying its shallow for a woman to say that she wants a man with a lot of money

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

That is indeed extremely shallow

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I think you’ve been watching too many Andrew Tate-wannabe podcasts lol

[MahmoudHassan1]

What are you talking about, lol? Litterally everyone on the planet says that women mainly want a man for his money and success while men mainly want a woman for her looks. We are biologically wired this way

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Maybe in societies where women don’t have the same rights as men, this would be true. In the developed world, women are much happier single and independent than married to a mediocre man who thinks a hefty paycheck makes him worthy of a loving family.

[jshm2]

You get mental health help, as no one is talking to you to begin with; and you're imagining it.

[petitedollbabee]

Stop caring so much about what people say.

[MahmoudHassan1]

But isn't it gonna greatly affect my entire life including my future marriage?

[MahmoudHassan1]

Are you there?

[petitedollbabee]

Only if you’re with someone who cares purely about your appearance. Which would be a miserable marriage. You should find someone who loves your personality and cherishes you, not bases your worth on your looks.

[MK1997]

You are attractive