What do I do, he smells bad?

[Anonymous]

This is totally horrible but I really like this guy, except his personal hygiene isn't exactly the best, but I really like him... Would you dudes keep dating a girl if she didn't smell too good down there? Should I speak to him or dump him? I've never experienced this before...

[MystiKaL]

As the other guys say, you have to speak to him about it. If his cheese helmet is getting bad then he should be realising this himself but if he thinks nothing is wrong, he will think his woman will think the same. So you have to sit him down and tell him nicely of his issue. If he is a decent guy, the most he will get is embarrased and will do something about it. If he does not do anything and ignoes what you are saying, THEN you dump him.

If my woman was hot but smelt awful, id tell her and if it didn't work, then id finish. Personal hygeine is a very important issue for me.

[Asker]

Oops... * I agreeeee I know, it's just because we aren't yet exclusive and I'm worried he'll think I'm being horrible... If you were only seeing a girl and she wasn't exactly smelling nice would you keep seeing her even if it wasn't serious? I'm just unsure of what to do... EEK

[DoctorDinosaur]

The good thing about personal hygiene is that it's a problem with an easy solution.

Don't dump him just for smelling bad! Find a polite way to bring up the topic. He may or may not be sensitive about the subject ... he may not be aware of it and then thank you for alerting him to the problem! It is possible (though not likely) that he could have some sort of medical condition that's making him smell bad, but if that's the case then you should probably at least know about it!

If nothing else works, you could try showering together :P

[sandyboo]

hmmm that's a tough one lol ... I think if you really like maybe you should give him a hint or just tell him, and find out wheres the problem!

[arashmenalagha]

You should tell him xD, why would you dump him? cause he smells bad? that's so stupid, and over reactive! hahaha :D

[Asker]

I agreeeeee,

[Belgie]

There's no nice way to tell someone, so you just have to tell him and give him a chance to fix it. Dumping him, especially without even telling him what's wrong, is a bit cowardly. He'll never fix the issue if he's not aware of it.

[sixstring]

Don't dump him without giving him a chance to fix it. Just tell him that he needs to clean himself more often. He'll understand.

[Anonymous]

Just tell him. It might sting a bit, but if he likes you, you leaving would hurt more, wouldn't you think? Something like this can be easily changed.