Help me lose weight!

[Anonymous]

I need to lose weight, I hate my body! I often mistake being hungry and being bored so when I think I'm hungry I'm actually bored and I end up eating! I can't stop this, I keep on gaining weight even if I eat healthy! And I know what I'm about to say is totally bonkers, but I used to be 117 pounds, and I thought I was fat and I couldn't stop eating. So I totally stop eating for 2 weeks I mean I maybe ate one celery stalk a day until I was about 105 pounds. I gained it all back and now I'm 120 pounds. I don't want to do what I did before because I know its wrong and unhealthy. But I just can't find a healthy way to lose weight! Any suggestions..?

[djbreal87]

I think the weight you are at is just fine, be happy with your body, going down to 100lbs is un healthy, just as much as being over weight. YOU ARE NOT FAT, unless you are like 3 ft tall, being 120 is ideal, TRUST ME. If you weight over 200lbs, then yea I would be happy to give advice on how to better lose weight, but 120? Seriously? What's wrong with women these days, I meant girl, you aren't even 18, so high school, super skinny girls, all the guys love them, so you are upset, gotcha, well the girls are dumb, and the guys are superficial. F***the girls, f*** the guys, f*** your high school and this brainwashing you have undergone by young un educated minds opinons and magazines false airbushed sense of beauty. Most men HATE skinny girls, we don't like it, I promise, I would MUCH rather date a girl with curves, as opposed to seeing you hip and rib bones. Stay the weight you are, don't change a thing

[djbreal87]

Also my comment is kinda on the harsh side, I mean no disrespect, but I'm just tired of seeing young girls think that SUPER skinny is the way to go. Most men honestly do not like it, if I have offended you, I apologize

[just_tired]

Harsh words but very well said.

[djbreal87]

I didn't mean to come off as harsh, but this is my BIGGEST pet peave, so I kinda got heated up, not with her, just with society, it really sucks :(

[just_tired]

Yeah I know what you mean.. If you hadn't said all those things, I would have. Wouldn't be the first time.

[just_tired]

You gained the weight back because you did the worst possible diet invented in the human history, fasting -.-... Your metabolism went really low so when you started eating normally, you gained the weight back. But it isn't a bad thing. 120lbs is a really good weight unless you're really really short.

And now I would basically say the same things as djbreal87, but it's already there. Just eat normally so you are healthy and beautiful the way you are.

Good luck!

[mhmmm]

i know you don't need to lose weight, you know you don't need to lose weight, we all know you don't need to lose weight. You're healthy! If you're truly unhappy with your body appearance, then try TONING not LOSING. there's a reallllly big difference. Being super skinny doesn't make you "perfect" or "pretty".. you're pretty because you're you, and because you're healthy. don't live your life and judge your body by looking at a scale... you're not overweight. just eat a healthy diet, and don't be a couch potato. lol not saying you are! I'm just saying... there are some people out there that really DO need to lose weight because of health issues... you? you're not one of those people. So stop worrying, and be happy. :)

[saragee27]

Loooool if you're fat at 120, then I'm a beluga whale at 130! A healthy way to lose weight is SLOWLY. You're not overweight at all, so it's not going to melt off of you even if you do those ridiculous fasts.

[justceasing]

Sweety...Okay. Being 117-120 is a good size. Before I continue what's your height?

[Asker]

my height is 5'2...Im really short!

[Mtsmith]

Then good for you...you just stay around 117, all is good...