If a heavier girl is working hard to lose weight?

[jennie918]

so I know a lot of guys prefer girls who are like 110 lbs or whatever but ... if a heavier girl is working hard to lose weight (and had an awesome personality) would you or could you still be interested in her. or do you only like small people?

[Anonymous]

I'm one of those guys that likes em skinny.

Personally I don't trust girls that say they are working out and that say they are losing weight. Because girls are awful when it comes to talking about working out as opposed to actually working out.

It also doesn't help that half the time they are working out to get a guy, and so when they get a guy, they feel like they can stop and become a fatass again.

I heard a quote once

"A guy falls in love with a girl, not expecting her to change, but she does. A girl falls in love with a guy expecting him to change, but he doesn't."

And I feel like that's what you get when you date a "about not be fat anymore" girl.

But hey, I'm a shallow bastard. If you are truly committed to working out, then you will get to that great body, and you will stay there no matter if you have a guy or not.

If you are doing it for a guy, I just hope you change your reasoning after awhile, because you'll be doomed to failure, and he will be doomed for disappointment.

[wisdom101]

A wise person see what's in the heart of a person, not what's on the outside. their is no such thing as to big or to small. Don't let snobs decide for you what is best for you. You really don't have to lose weight to find a person who will be intrested in you. You just work on having a great personality and trust me. The right person will see you for who you truly are. Wonderful. And that personality will in time attract people who at first wrote you off as impossible to date. Some of the happiest and kindest people in the world are over sized or undersized people. That's a fact.

[Joluvscheer]

I am not answerin your question per-say but, Not everybody is meant to be 110lbs. so be you and if he is what you need he will be able to handle that.

[jennie918]

love this answer I don't think I can pick 2 best answers lol :) thank you

[Joluvscheer]

Your welcome :) When I saw the question I just had to comment.

[toouglytobeloved]

that depends on what you mean by "heavier" because usually girls always think they are fat and most of the time they are not

how tall, age, and how much do you weigh?

theres a too skinny as much as there is for too fat just so ya know

but again it all depends ... if she had a awesome personality than its all good but she would have to be the one to make the first moves and ask me out because ill never do that

[Anonymous]

People are attracted to, what they are attracted to. If a person is looking for a serous relationship then they need to be able to look past the physical, but that doesn't mean they will not prefer someone that is physically attractive, and has a great personality.

I could be interested in a heavier woman, if she still lived a healthy lifestyle. I don't want to get fat so I can't be with someone that is unhealthy in the way they live.

[TheUglyOne]

If she has a pretty face - one that I at least find pretty - and a good personality, I would overlook some extra pounds. But I have my limits, too much overweight I just can't find attractive.

[Pebyron]

If she has a pretty face

And if I can pick her up

I like picking up my girls and spinning them around

[Moloch]

People don't care about what you're GOING to be, they care about what you are now. When I found that out I was pissed as hell once I put myself in a better position and started getting more attention.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I would still be interested if she's a heavier girl, especially if she's working out.