Lost 65 lbs and now I'm getting more attention, how do I handle that?

[Anonymous]

So I've lost 65 lbs and I'm still losing because I'm not at my goal yet but I have noticed that guys are starting to pay more attention to me and I'm honestly not sure how to handle the attention seeing as I've never really gotten any. guys are flirting more and making second glaces and I'm flattered I just have no idea how to A. take a compliment or B. react to the attention. suggestions? advice?

[xSofiax]

Firstly, massive congratulations on that!

Well this is really all about how you feel, if its a nice compliment you feel good? then say thanks you know, guys aren't really good with subtle things anyway, they much prefer you to be straight and simple with them.

Well the attention thing is much more different, do you want the attention? don't you? If you do then have a conversation, do a little bit of flirting back if you want too.

If you don't, then just say sorry but I'm not interested.

[RedSmartie]

First of all, congratulations! That must have taken so much hard work and dedication. Guys paying attention to you shows that it is certainly paying off!

As far as handling it goes, I suggest you handle it with grace and dignity. Don't deny their compliments, just say thank you and smile. If you are attracted to the guy, flirt back a little. If not, maybe you should just act oblivious to their interest. Thank them for the compliments and pretend that they're just being nice instead of flirty.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

Whatever you do, don't take it to heart get all excited and start dating the first few guys who pay attention to you.some formerly big girls I knew ended up losing their damn minds and falling in love quickly because they weren't used to the attention.flirt with guys you want to date and ignore the ones you wouldn't date. Being beautiful gives you power over a lot of guys so realize that and have fun

[KingJR]

enjoy it! Just think of it as an added bonus to all the hard work you put in on getting to your goal.That is, if you LIKE the attention.

Just don't let it get to your head is all though.

[Anonymous]

You just go with the flow now that it's happening.

[AnathemA381]

Just do whatever the hell you feel like! Enjoy the attention, and go with it.

Congratulations, by the way!

Peace.

[Anonymous]

enjoy it! so proud of u! may I ask what your diet exercise plan was?

[Asker]

Intense cardio and high protein low carb

[Anonymous]

I think just smile and say thanks for compliments but don't act too excited. Just have fun with it :-) good luckk!