Would you prefer a really pretty obese/overweight girl or a not so pretty but closer to the ideal shape?

[Anonymous]

When I mean obese/overweight I mean really fat but that she could still look desirable, that she doesn't have any trouble walking or finding clothes...but clearly fat...but a gorgeous face and skin

the other one would be more like a Hollywood girl body but the face is just a bit above average not spectacular but that is perceived as pretty to many people...

So which one and why?

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So I mean something like this link for the fat one...

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And this could be the second girl the average girl but not fat link

[AJ2293]

I don't think you can be obese and pretty. At least not in my eyes. Overweight maybe, but not obese. If you're obese your face can be OK but not gorgous, that too much fat just shows in faceand ruins your facial structure.

The pic you posted is photoshopped. Women of that size in real life don't have skin that smooth and bodies that shapley.

A girl that is fit, with an above average face, what more can you ask for?

[lace1228]

So does that me I'm automatically ugly because I'm over weight?

[AJ2293]

well I said overweight is fine in some cases, like if you're not too far from a healthy BMI. But once your BMI gets close to 29/30 or more than ya, that means ugly.

[Asker]

maybe to this guy, I know many guys that prefer the bigger girl, I was sleight overweight once and didn't have any problems attracting guys the problem was that I was self consious...

[lace1228]

Well what do you think of me...

[AJ2293]

you have a nice face for sure, but not gonna lie you'd be way prettier if you weren't that heavy. You know, you guys say overweight girls may have pretty faces. But faces that commonly considered attractive are skinny faces. With a girl that is 5 lbs overweight it may not really show in her face and she can be gorgous even though her body is not perfect.

With you it def shows in your face.

I can't see your body, so I can't really say anything about that

[Asker]

i don't think you need to be skinny to have a pretty face, only really obese girls have that distorted fat face...she has a pretty face

[AJ2293]

well I don't think you can be very overweight and have a gorgous face, as you stated it in your question, sry

[Asker]

i said overweight and I showed a plus size model

[AJ2293]

i know

[Nseal302]

somewhere in between with a great personality (which makes up a lot of how great a girl looks to me).

[lace1228]

People really have a distorted idea that overweight people are unfit ugly and will never be anything. But that isn't true. I am clearly overweight but I am healthy, I have good skin good hygiene and. I have a very beautiful face. I have inner demons to fight and it is a daily battle but I know I can lose weight and I rather be with someone who can take me for who I am now and not wait until I'm down a few lbs.

[xzinax2]

the slimmer girl is the more popular choice (i'm talking about the couples I've actually seen) because they're more functional. a nice body says that she's active (which translates to better in bed and good genes and health) and cares for herself.

[lucky24]

i agree with you on this

[antonlikesmlb]

Above average face + model body > Obese + gorgeous face.

[Asker]

why?

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Id simply take the second one as I'm just not into overweight women.

[Asker]

even if she is extremely beautiful? has the most gorgeous face ever? I mean if you convince her to work out she would be some Angelina Jolie lol

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Like look at Jennifer Hudson, she was once fat/overweight. I'm guessing she changed herself either for the hollywood image or just to better herself. I'm all for woman being in shape but I'm not going to make a girl do it if she doesn't want the change herself.

[Asker]

yeah wouldn't make sense and I think Jennifer Hudson would fit in the second girl category, she is pretty but just above average she isn't like that perfect model face