1. I am more confident, more self belief.
2. I am happier in general.
3. I am healthier, fitter, more athletic.
4. People are more friendly.
5. The way I talk to myself is more positive.
6. I get more attention from females.
7. Received a potential job offer (which I turned down kindly).
8. A girl showed love interest (but I was concerned about online dating).
Cons:
1. No girlfriend in spite of 20 pound weight loss (for now).
2. I can see that actually for others, being physically attractive can be a burden, a curse. It brings out a lot of jealousy and insecurity in others - you would think life is all better if you are more attractive, but sometimes the opposite is true. Insecure people try to bully you, give you a hard time.
3. But being confident and physically in shape gives you the courage to stand up to them.
On balance I am still happy I lost the weight. I hope I don't come across as superficial or arrogant but it's hard to sort out how perception can change so fast - 20lbs in one month, and then it's like a new life.
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