Anyone else have an awful NYE?

[Alonso14]

Mine was utter sh*t. Ended up in a sh*tty nightclub with my friends listening to sh*t music while watching everyone else kiss people at midnight while I stood there being forever alone. Then some guy tried to start a fight with me for not moving out of his way because he was too lazy to walk around me. I then ended the night venting to Facebook about how I need plastic surgery. I'm still quite drunk and haven't deleted it, I might change my mind about that when I wake up in the morning though.

Not sure what I'm asking here but yeah, my NYE was just as bad as all the years before.

[Anonymous]

It was both good and bad. I went out downtown with my girlfriend, her cousin, and another friend. We didn't really have a plan, just hit whatever places didn't require pre-purchased tickets to get in for the party. We went to a couple places, and then my friend met up with another friend and we decided all 5 of us would go to a place that required a ticket, but sold them at the door. My friend and his friend got their tickets and got in...then as soon as the other 3 of us stepped up, they said they were sold out. So they split up our group. My friend wouldn't come back out to go anywhere else, so we had to leave him behind.

My girlfriend, her cousin, and I didn't know of anywhere else to go at that point, so we went to a strip club that was having a party. We got there just before midnight to have a champagne toast, kiss the girlfriend, and just hang out and have a couple drinks before going home. So my girlfriend's cousin was on my couch, and I was in the bedroom with my girlfriend ringing in the new year...then my friend calls me right in the middle of it. I hit the ignore on my phone, but my girlfriend made me call him back to make sure everything was okay. So we had to stop, and I called him, and he said they couldn't get a cab at the club they were at (guess he should have thought of that before decided to separate himself from his ride instead of coming back out with us). Eventually they got a cab, but it's a bit awkward when your girlfriend tells you to call someone right in the middle of something you know?

Then New Year's Day...my car got broken into. So it was both good and bad.

[steveguitar]

my birthday is on NYE, 2 years ago I spent my birthday completely alone getting drunk in my basement. for the last year my parents stayed home because they realized I had no real friends and I tried to go out to a bar by myself, but everything was closed. This year I just accepted the fact that my parents were home and I wanted to be with somebody. I still hated the fact that I didn't have much fun, besides watching a sad movie called "Arbitrage" but I am glad that they were there. I have social anxiety and It has plagued me all my life, and It has finally beat me down to my lowest point ever. I have missed out on so much in my life due to social anxiety that I have had suicidal thoughts, that I never wanted to have. I just realize that I probably won't be successful in life, and the only thing I was ever good at was being by myself in my parents basement...watching movies playing video games, always hoping that my luck would change. but it hasn't really and I'm 26 years old, I've never been on a date. never been to a club, lost all my childhood friends. well it sucks that you almost got into a fight and I know what it feel like ot be forever alone and post some stupid statuses and tweets, that make people wonder if you are fu%ked in the head. sometimes I do feel like I am. I always wonder how people really think of me. and I don't know how it is I will find a normal, positive life.

[XRabbitHeartX]

YES. I had a awful NYE. My best female friend had a party and decided to just invite girls. Epic.. fail.. right there. I spent the night with girlie laughs, gossip and girl drama. We had fondue which is terrible cause it takes forever to get your food cooked, the chocolate fountain didn't taste right and I don't know how much they drank but by the time I actually wanted to dip my strawberry in the chocolate foundation they were sitting around it with straws drinking directly from it like drug addicts sitting around a cocaine line. They all wore super short dresses and we headed off to the beach and then of course, they had to forget their jackets so they were complaining the entire time about how cold it is and that the wind is messing their hair up. I only saw 5 min of fireworks at most. I was really bummed out cause that's the most epic part of New Years for me. But anyways, when we got back they all started to get grouchy, now I don't know if they were all on their periods or something but they started complaining about ridiculous things and being moody. I just sat there on the couch thinking why did I do this to myself? I could have had a better time with my other friends which included guys. But anyways I went home at one am and had a way better time with myself than with them. Lesson learned for me.

[Joshbgosh]

LOL "I don't know how much they drank but by the time I actually wanted to dip my strawberry in the chocolate foundation they were sitting around it with straws drinking directly from it like drug addicts sitting around a cocaine line."...that line killed me lol.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Glad you appreciated it :P

[learningthegame16]

My NYE was pretty awesome. I didn't go to a massive party, instead I went to a friend's house, watched horror movies while drinking and at some point stumbled along a beach that was kind of secluded.

It sounds lame, but it really was a great night. I'd rather be in the company of a good friend and chill out than be surrounded by random douche bags.

Sorry to hear you had a bad night but chin up, tomorrow's a new day :)

[Alonso14]

I think that sounds much more fun :) All of my friends wanted to go out though haha. Bit cold for the beach here though :P

[learningthegame16]

It was pretty good, my friend even said it was the best NYE she had :P Well it's summer where I live, so most people are living at the beach.

Hopefully next NYE will be more enjoyable for you :)

[CrazyCherryBlossom]

My best friend about a week ago told me about this NYE party our friend was going to have. She said everyone from our friend group was invited (we're pretty popular so that friend group is large). I was so excited and bought a new eyeshadow and lipgloss to match the dress I was planning on wearing. I never got invited and ended up sitting home alone with my 9 year old sister watching Lion King.

Also,my crush from my French class friended me on Facebook but when I checked out his profile it said he had a girlfriend.

Happy 2013 -_-

[Alonso14]

That's really horrible :( Are you sure you weren't just overlooked by mistake?

At least you got to watch the Lion King, things could have been worse :')

[CrazyCherryBlossom]

Nope, turned out she's hated me since 7th grade. I just love that, new leaf!

[Anonymous]

I got drunk, even though I was telling them that I don't want to drink , but they kept bugging me. Then, we decided to go to another bar and while going to the car I fell down and hurt my knee. My stockings got teared and there was blood everywhere, but I didn't realize it. People in the next bar were laughing with me, and I didn't understand why. Then I went and hugged every single person I knew in there. And after that I went and cried to every friend I had in there and told them that I love them.

The next day I woke up in a sea of blood, and realized that my knee had to be stiched.

I wouldn't call it awfull though... Christmas eve was far worse..

[Alonso14]

Ouch. Is it okay now? You can just blame the alcohol :)

My Christmas Eve was actually good, left me very hungover on Christmas Day though :(

[Opinion Owner]

Well it still hurts, but I'm thankfull I can walk ^^

Good for you... Mine started good, but then I got in a fight with one of my friends, got back together with my ex and broke up again after some hours, after he punched me... At least I can't whine about life being boring...

[Alonso14]

You've really had a rough time the last few weeks lol

I'd take boring over domestic abuse and drunken accidents tbh, hope your next few weeks are a bit better :P

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you :) I hope 2013 goes better for you than your NYE

PS1. No, you don't need plastic surgery.

PS2. I like your second foto... A smile can change a lot how others view you.

[Alonso14]

I hate my smile though haha

And trust me, I do :)

[Opinion Owner]

I like it though

[fefe884]

Mine was great :) And don't worry, it's not the NYE that matters, it's the new year itself. Don't forget that you are still alive in 2013, so you can be happy about that :). With life, there is hope...

[Alonso14]

I like your positive outlook... at least I'm still here :P

[fefe884]

thanks, and yes you are :)

[Anonymous]

Not so good. I went out to a club with 2 of my guy friends, one of which I have liked for a long while. Anyway the club was expensive (cover, drinks, even getting a locker was like $3.00), the friend that I like spent the night chasing after every girl in club, making me depressed and feeling worthless compared to other women. The other friend tried asking me out, however I have never had feelings for him and turned him down, thus making the rest of the night with him awkward. No one else approached me to chat/dance/etc and the people I tried striking a convo with just brushed me off, so I ended up standing awkwardly in a corner or wandering most if the night. I couldn't even get drunk (trust me I tried, then ran out of money) cause this place was ridiculously stingy with their liquor despite being so expensive. I started the new year sad, worthless and depressed.

[Anonymous]

My first day of 2013 was terrible.

I don't care about dating or kissing or the new year's eve itself.

I slept 12 hours and I woke up at 6-7 am because I put in mind/ I thought that the final exam would be at 1pm but found out that it is at 9am but when did I find out? At 8am. Well I didn't study at all " thinking that ill/planning to" study the course when I get to college at 9 am.

Well what a terrible first day of the year. I did my best and the test wasn't that much difficult but :/ I got shocked and I probably messed up everything and of course didn't study anything just skimmed in 15 minutes.

I am still positive after all that though lol, let's try the next day. Maybe it is going to be better.

[Opinion Owner]

But yea, happy new year

[LexiNinja]

Yeah, ended up not going out tonight. So now I'm lonely and just watched the ball drop livestream! Omg, I feel like crying! Even though, technically in Cali it's like 9 o.o Sorry you didn't have a good time out man..Hope you have a better day tomorrow! Happy New Year!

[Alonso14]

Awww thanks :)

I really wish I'd have stayed in. Just remember it could be worse, you could be surrounded by happy people :O

[LexiNinja]

Yeah Aha times like these, sh*t gets crazy out..But yeah, it's all good, I have my dog to repair my lonleyness with lol

[drummerdude25]

Mine was good, could've been better I guess, but all in all it was fun...

I spent quite a bit of money. The cover charge at the bar/club I went to was a bit pricey and I spent a little more than I intended anyway, but I made it all back today after doing some work for a neighbor and cashing in some lotto tickets, lol.

No real complaints...

[Stuffhappens]

I'm from Australia, I'm not familiar with cover charge. What is it?

[drummerdude25]

You have to pay to get into the place... can't just walk in. Luckily where I went, they included a glass of champagne for a midnight toast so it wasn't all too bad of a price to pay.

[Anonymous]

pretty sh*tty too, in a lame city for NYE, went to a super lame pub ended up dancing with some utterly lame people and when the balloons dropped I stood there wishing I was with my boyfriend, but no I just have to be in my parents' city for NYE and everyone around me were kissing and I just missed him so much while standing there like a frigging log. F***!

[Alonso14]

Next year take your boyfriend with you, or tell your parents your not coming home ahah

[Opinion Owner]

Haha! Thanks! :D

[caramelchick92]

spent it in bed, wondering and being upset over why a guy who admitted he liked me and wanted me to be his girl hadn't spoke to me for a few days, which has now turned into 6 days, officially have no confidence now. Not sure I'll be able to go to work later without wanting to cry over it.

[Alonso14]

If that picture on your profile is actually you its definitely his loss!

Has he just not been in contact or is he not replying?

[caramelchick92]

Haha yeah it is me :) thanks, he hasn't been in contact since Saturday. I sent him a message this morning asking if everything was okay, I know he's read it. Guess its upto him now. Just the dissapering act is not a good way to end things.

[Anonymous]

Spent it at my folks', drinking, haha!

Uneventful, but oh well. It's just another day for me - very glad to see 2012 go though! Woo hoo!

I've never gotten to kiss anyone for a New Year, maybe next year :-)

[wormyrug]

Well, instead of going to my girlfriends house for a party, I ended up at my grandad's wake as he died on the morning of the 31st December, so yeah, I had a pretty bad New year's eve.

[ziva123]

Boyfriend with family in belgium, and my NY kiss was from a girl. :)

and no- you do not need plastic surgery :)

[Alonso14]

Oh god, don't even get me started hahaha - see my other questions :P

[funkadelic5]

One who is happy with nothing is always happy.

Sounds like something the Buddha would say.

Work on it, yo.

[Alonso14]

Sounds good. Will probably make me even more lazy though :P

How do I get started?

[funkadelic5]

Well if you're entirely serious, I would begin reading some books on spirituality. I think Eckhart Tolle is understandable by most people and a really good entry into that world.

[Alonso14]

I'll check it out, thank you :)

[Anonymous]

I had an amazing NYE. My boyfriend did all of these wonderful, thoughtful things for me.

Then after the ball dropped we broke up.

But it was nice until then!

[PoeticNinja]

HAHAH, wow.

[Opinion Owner]

Ya gotta take the good with the bad, right? I had a great weekend and night that ended with a few tears. Not a half bad balance.

[Dovahbear]

I was at home editing my resume and applying for Jobs. Can't get any sadder than that. :/

[MikeK]

Not so bad...

It was -10 below, so I stayed home by myself... went through a box of beta tapes, made a steak, drank a lot of screwdrivers... really not too bad.

[baliguy11]

yesterday for me. not awful at all. actually hot but in a strange way. not anything I expected.

[JennyBenny318]

Yeah was gonna go to some parties. But then my boyfriend was tired. He's now in bed sleeping and I'm sitting here waiting for the ball to drop.

[Robotic]

Why not just go without him?

[JennyBenny318]

I don't have a car and its his friends. Not mine.

[JennyBenny318]

And I don't drive at night anyway.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry :( seems like a lot of people didn't have such great holidays. Mine was terrible. I got in a fist fight with my sister.

[front2back]

Yeah, I was at home doing an AP US History project. So yeah, mine kind of sucked.