So I like this girl and want to take her out please help.

[Anonymous]

So I'm a guy I'm overweight.230 lb.s not all fat I played a lot of sports one year I did three sports.I am sweet I know my way around things I'm a good fighter and I've dated mostly skinny girls alot.I like this girl she is beautiful I'm 16 and she is 15.we like each other. We have been friends for years.I've been there for her and everything.she wants us to hang out after two weeks.when her brother gets back from Texas so she has a break from taking care of her mom.she wants to hug kiss and thinks we will do more.idk. Please give me advice how to progress things.not in an a**hole way I just wanna make this a great realationship physical and mental.

[EmyH41]

Having had this and getting together with one of the best friends I have ever had is that make sure you don't always act like a best friend to her. That was one thing I was really disappointed in him for and was always sad and depressed about. He didn't ask me out on any dates we rarely hugged or anything (it didn't help he was really shy). I just felt like a friend and nothing more, and that I wasn't very important to him. So be a great boyfriend (take her on dates do those little things cute things, text her in the mornings, say I love you, hug her randomly, etc.) and a great best friend (listen to her, care for her, act silly with her, etc) Just even it out and it should work out :)

[KaterinaAmila]

Take it slow. Don't do anything uncomfortable. Take her places. Don't treat her just as a friend, treat her better. Make her feel special. Its the little things that get to us the most. Like notes or the occasional your beautiful. Since you've been friends you know how to make her laugh and you know what she likes to do for fun, so that makes things easier. Challenge her to do new things.

[Anonymous]

The primary rule is this: Move slowly. The faster you rush into things, the faster you'll find yourself dumped. Start out by picking her up and taking her out to something cheap but fun -- mini golf, bowling, or maybe a low-cost restaurant. When you take her home, give her a kiss (and I'm not talking on the cheek). If she turns her head, she's not interested.

[Asker]

Thanks I Will definitely I have a tendency to rush cause of the lo first rated dating were rushers and it I'd s burned into me.I'm gonna try to change it.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Ask her out on dates, talk to hear - learn about her and her dreams and goals. Take it slow and enjoy it.

[Anonymous]

Just thought I’d comment and say that nowadays weight truly isn’t everything. If you have a good personality you should be good. Besides, not all girls like small men. Don’t worry about that. Take it slow, be kind and be aware of how you say things as us girls can tend to overthink quite a lot and need assurance that you like us. (Not saying guys don’t need that also).
I wish you the best.

[Anonymous]

Just ask her out on a date. You have to let her know that is your intention so she doesn't think your just going out as friends.

And if you do start dating, stop acting like her friend too much and more like a partner. Girls like to know the difference.

Don't be too sweet either, You don't want her growing used to it and having kind gestures go to waste (as often does).

[rkkids2]

Tell her how you feel! Let her know exactly how you feel. Don't live a life of what ifs :)