I'm losing faith, hope, and can't seem to carry my own weight anymore. Advice?

[Anonymous]

As each days pass I feel more hopeless. I don't have any friends really and never had a girlfriend. I tried to make friends and a girlfriend but things never work out. It's really eating me alive that why can't have relationships or bonds with people. I go to the gym to help cope with this but it doesn't seem to work out. Guys and Gals what would be your advice for me?

[SumomoSummer1]

I would just say focus on other things like you have been. Going to the gym is good because it makes you focus on other things and is healthy for your body. As for getting a girl, girls like confidence. And the fact that you go to the gym increases your chances. I don't really know what to say about making friends cause it has always taken me a little while to do that but just be yourself; don't be afraid to talk and interact with other people.

And last thing I guess, don't feel hopeless. You are still young and you have a while. You don't wanna rush things and end up with a bad girlfriend who uses you or cheats on you...or both...So just take your time and be patient.

[jswag]

Even if your not fully confident in yourself- be sure act confident around other people. I personally can't stand people that are always down on themselves. Good luck bro, I'm sure your a really good person, don't give up

[palek]

I'm not a great collector of friends myself, perhaps cuzz I'm an only child. But if you ever need someone to talk to just holler at me.

[Dionysos]

Ask yourself what you would do all day if money were no object.

Then do that. Find a way to do it a lot.

[Anonymous]

Get professional help.

[Janson]

i'll be your friend

[andilep]

we can be friends if you want to ha ha :)