Am I Right to think she's not interested?

[Anonymous]

ME = Hey, how's it going? How are you getting on with networking? I heard your pretty good at networking and that you can maybe help me out?

HER = Hi good thanks. I Haven't started the last task yet, is that what your stuck on?

ME = Good .Yep I tried to start networking today but nothing worked for me. Same with operating system, don't know where to start how are you finding operating system

HER = Aw no I haven't looked at networking yet, hope it's not too hard. Yeah I really don't like os, I only have one language working and got help of Ross haha

ME = I am still stuck on 0% , the assessment items bit is greyed out so can't even check what's right or wrong lol. Same I don't get this buffer stuff at all but somehow passed last two assessments . I don't like programming lol. So you up too much this weekend?

HER = Aw right I've still not tried it been up in Aberdeen this weekend and was working tonight, so hopefully try get loads of work done tomorrow haha

ME = Cool . Yeah same gonna try and get some work done tomorrow.

[harveykinkle]

If I was her I wouldn't even begin to think you were romantically interested me by this exchange of words... You didn't do anything to indicate your interest!

It sounds like she's a word or school mate and you're asking for her help..

[Asker]

What should I say then?:P

[harveykinkle]

Talka bout anything other than work/school. Ask her about herself, joke, make her smile, sound interesting...

[katie1994]

can't tell by this conversation... you didn't really say anything that would indicate flirting...maybe add a smiley or something haha

[Asker]

give me some tips please? :P

[katie1994]

i mean what you were saying wasn't bad... you just gotta give it some more time. I think a smiley goes a long way... if at the end you say thanks for the help I really appreciate it bye!=] I just think it shoes its made you smile that you got to talk to her if that makes any sense...once u've had some conversations with small talk you can ask her to get coffee or something to maybe discuss what u've been working on or something...

[Asker]

my bad I didn't say "Cool . Yeah same gonna try and get some work done tomorrow."

I said something like :

"Aww cool, night out with friends in Aberdeen?. So are you enjoying your course ? Far too much uni work this year haha . I'm definitely not looking forward to exams lol, totally going to fail. busy weekend huh? Someone beautiful like you need beauty sleep:P"

bit cheesy I think lol, she seen the message but not replied to me after that. don't know if she is freaked out or something

[katie1994]

yeah I'm sorry that might have creeped her out to be honest. if you wouldn't say that to her in person don't text it. even if your not being creepy ... it sounds like your hitting on her too soon.

[Asker]

hey she replied back but totally ignored what I said to her

HER = Yeah she goes to uni up there so was good. I am actually, sometimes I can't be bothered with it though haha, you? Yeah me neither, hate exams.

Should I just stop bothering her then?

[Brookeelise]

i really can't tell by this conversation.

if you are interested don't waste time and ask her out

[Asker]

I don't want to freak her out lol, that's why I'm kinda talking it slow...should I be more forward and hint her?

[Brookeelise]

you don't have to go up and say "BE MY GF"

be subtle and ask her our for coffee or to a movie shell get the drift