Do you think this is too much surgery?

[bombdotcom]

Do you think a lip reduction & buccal fat removal (cheek reduction) is too much?

Which should come first? Rhinoplasty, buccal fat removal or lip reduction?

I don't think I want a nose job anymore as I've heard it's the most painful type of surgery you can have.

But I want a cheek reduction (buccal fat removal) and lip reduction. But I do not want thin lips (no offense), I just want smaller, flattering lips. As for cheeks, I want cheekbone definition.

I'm not seeking confirmation from y'all, I'm just wondering if you think it's too much?

If I go on to have then I do; if not then well, oh well.

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+1 y

Ok, so maybe I should look into rhinoplasty some more...

I've always heard the nose is the most important feature. I don't want a bridge & I'm not sure what I want accomplished from rhinoplasty. I just don't want to regret it

[kheserthorpe]

I think both would make you look worse.

The rhino isn't remotely needed but I suppose it's conceivable it might end up with a marginally cuter nose if it goes perfectly.

You're not supposed I see the cheekbones just the evidence of structure. Which you have. Te women I've seen who got buccal fat removal has a bulge that went in one curve from cheekbone t their chin. Your cheek fat is great. It will vanish with time and that will make you look older. It's the lack of that cheek fat that makes old women with face lifts not look quite right.

As for your lips they're great. My wife's are almost identical. She wishes she could get an enlargement.

[bombdotcom]

I don't care for a cute nose...

And an enlargement would look horrible but everyone has a different idea of beauty I suppose. I just think mine are oversized and I'd like small ones

I think I'd look good with the surgery though.

[kheserthorpe]

What do you want to change about your nose? I'm kind of indifferent on noses unless they're really standing out in a bad way.

[bombdotcom]

I don't know

I just heard a good nose can make you prettier. Whatever a doctor thinks is a good nose

[kheserthorpe]

I have serious doubts that plastic surgery will make you fee better. When people really have a couple things that stick out and make them look worse that wear on their esteem it can make a long term difference. That doesn't describe you. You're pretty with no problem features. You just aren't happy with your self. No tweaks to your features will change that.

[bombdotcom]

And surgery will help change what I'm unhappy with. People on here will call a horses ass pretty, so I'm basing this off of my perception.

[kheserthorpe]

But you don't even know what you're unhappy with. Like if there was some strange hook in your nose, and the hook made you sad, the hook could be fixed. But you just vaguely feel like you're not good enough.

[redtide]

Surgery to "look" better, is stupid because it's dangerous. Yes, regular surgery to fix broken bones etc.. is also dangerous, but it's probably more dangerous to do things like botox etc..just don't, OK?

[Anonymous]

If anything do the rhinoplasty and not the other stuff. I have seen nose jobs have the greatest effect on the appearance. However, they are easily botched, and when that happen its bad.

Lip reductions I wouldn't recommend unless you have excessively large lips because they tend to look odd on people (it give a "tight" appearance to the lips/mouth) depending on the type. Usually the reduction of the protrusion of lips looks better than an over all reduction of size.

As for the buccal fat removal, I wouldn't recommend it unless you have jowls, otherwise you will end up looking several year older, but that may be the look you're going for?

[Anonymous]

:) I think you are pretty.

Lots of surgery doesn't come out very well.

I broke my nose when I was a kid and had a nose job when I was a teenager and it looks really really bad, I never tried to get it done again because I hate surgery and am afraid of what surgeons will do to me.

I then had skin cancer on the side of my upper nose and then cut a hole into my nose. So it looks bad. This surgery caused my nostril on one side to look flat because they pulled the tissue together to close up the hole.

Surgery isn't good I think people should only get it for birth defects like clef palates and also if something is broken.

[Opinion Owner]

I've always felt uncomfortable with the way I look.

[bombdotcom]

Oh my grandpa had that on his nose as well. Except they got rid of half of his nose. He had it when my mom was little so I grew up not thinking much about if

[Sexydncr]

It's your face and to answer your question of a perfect nose it's usually narrow and medium sized and while looking to the side is a perfect triangle. That's most people's preference but I don't think it's such a big deal. I totally envy your lips but I sympathize with you wanting to get your cheeks narrowed and I don't like my nose either. Whatever you do, make sure you really look into it and the surgeon... Make sure you know you can trust him or her.

[desidoll]

I don't think so. Unless if it is done more than once or twice then maybe.Overdone surgery never looks good.If you feel like that will make you happy and comfortable with your look then go for it.People here will stop you though so asking this question will just make you argue with them lol.

[xHoneyxBeex]

It is a lot of facial surgery but if you really want it then I don't think it's too much. Personally, I do plan on getting rhinoplasty done one day, I just don't know when yet. My nose is the only issue I have with my face though. Lol

But anyway, I think you should get the lip reduction first since it's a smaller area and then get the buccal fat removal. Of course, it's totally up to you.

[COCOCHANEL]

i think a chubby, round face is cute ... I would never ever have fat removed from my face. also never considered a nose job. why do you want one anyway? I think it's a lot, the combination I mean.

[COCOCHANEL]

reading other answers I see everyone's talking about noses. I don't know but from what I've heard

my whole life, my nose and eyes seem to be my best features. I think they are OK. it's the other parts that bother me. I don't like my chin but I'm afraid to do bone surgery.

[bombdotcom]

Well, I have always heard that before getting anything on the face done, the nose should be done. The nose can bring out cheekbones, make a chin look smaller, make a forehead look smaller, the eyes brighter, lips more full etc.

[COCOCHANEL]

interesting, never heard that before. however, one of my students is a practicing cosmetic surgeon and when I met him for the first time I asked him to look at my face and be honest and tell me what the flaws are. I expected him to mention my chin but he looked at my face for a few minutes and finally said, "i wouldn't change anything about your face except add a nose bridge." I was shocked to hear this because my nose is already narrow and relatively "tall" and not too small.

[Anonymous]

I believe in natural beauty. So, to answer your question, I am against any type of surgery unless is something that has not made you happy your entire life. Big lips are sexy, they are only not sexy when they are too big.Cheeks are cute unless is nkt overly. In general it is how it fits the person overall appearance and personality, if that make sense.

[bombdotcom]

Oh, I definitely agree. I think in my case my lips are too big. But cheekbones are always nice on a person but I respect your pov

[Opinion Owner]

Not to get biblical on you although I truly believe this verse Psalms 139 13-14 For You formed my inward parts; You covered me in my mother’s womb. I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Marvelous are Your works.

God knows best. I truly believe in this.

[Opinion Owner]

You are God piece of art work.

[bombdotcom]

I don't believe in God but, thanks

[Opinion Owner]

You are welcome.

[Stacyzee]

It sounds like almost an entire facial make over.

But if the doctor approves, and it's something that you feel you really want then go for it.

[kimberlyxxx]

Too much! You will ruin your face! You will be UGLY girl! All you need is rhinoplasty. I'm not against plastic surgery! I just have a brilliant mind! lolololol

[Anonymous]

Too much surgery! Just don't brag that you are natural when you are not. Just saying.

[bombdotcom]

If I want to then I can. Better than being natural and average or natural and ugly. No one but girls give a fuck about that

[Opinion Owner]

Apparently you put too much emphasis in your look. I rather be natural then plastic. It doesn't matter your gene will pass on. It will always be coded in your DNA, and I know this because I am a biology major :)

[bombdotcom]

I know it will always be coded in my DNA. But again, rather be fake and pretty than natural and on girlsaskguys trying to convince myself I'm better than others cause I'm "natural" lmao. Apparently it's not working out for you. but thanks for the block, I imagine teasegirl

[Opinion Owner]

I am not trying to be harsh. You should be proud with what you have.

[Lj238]

I've never seen one surgery on someones face that made them look better except for a rhinoplasty. Other than that every single one makes people look worse than before

[Account]

Yeah right... Natural beauty and all that crap. That's why guys love celebs like Jessica Alba, Megan Fox, Scarlett Johansson, Jennifer Lopez and a couple of p*rn-stars...

[Lj238]

Megan fox looked way better before surgeries

[bombdotcom]

Typical response from people on here

[camp8989]

yikes. it's not your face that needs help, it's clearly your self esteem... everyone can tell when some one's had plastic surgery, and the very next thing they wonder is why? you were beautiful the way you were, and now you're fake.

[bombdotcom]

Again, no one cares about being fake other than women. Beauty is beauty. And at the end of the day it's my face

[camp8989]

sorry but you are way off. any guy I have ever talked to has told me theyl take authentic, unaltered beauty over beauty that is purchased. It shows a shallow personality and a huge lack of self confidence. If you're looking for guys who like fake faces and fake bodies, then go ahead, butcher your face, but I guarantee in the long run it's not going to make you happy. You need to work on who you actually are, not what you look like because girl, there will ALWAYS be some one else who's prettier.

[bombdotcom]

Nah, it only matters to girls. Being fake & pretty>>>natural and average

[camp8989]

well I am sorry you encourage women to spend money they could spend on either their education, charities, travel, or shit, maybe even a solid savings account than putting it all into propelling unrealistic expectations of beauty set in motion by misogynistic men like yourself.

[bombdotcom]

Where do I encourage women to spend money on plastic surgery? So not agreeing with you means I'm a misogynistic man? Uh, if you had a clue you'd know I'm a girl

[camp8989]

well then too bad you sound like a misogynistic man

[Anonymous]

Why do pretty girls worry about these things when they are already perfect and beautiful as they are? I don't think you need to worry about such things, word of advice you should think about other things in life

[bombdotcom]

No one is perfect...

And I'm far from beautiful, but surgery would help!

I do worry about other things in life. School starts up this week :o

[Opinion Owner]

you don't need surgery

[bombdotcom]

Well, I think I do. So...

[camp8989]

THANK YOU

[Anonymous]

Like the anonymous person said. You won't be natural. Take your chances in becoming ugly or "prettier"

[bombdotcom]

And I care about being "natural?" No one but people on here gives a fuck about that

[latinapassion]

You haven't even put a pic up. Why are you mad? I am just telling you the truth. Like the anon girl said, you should complain who is plastic after doing such procedure and you shouldn't have the right to not brag that you are natural.

[latinapassion]

so why are you attacking him?

[latinapassion]

anon guy* not girl.

[bombdotcom]

What do you care? Like I said, if I want to claim natural I can.

[latinapassion]

wth... you DO NOT need the procedure. Just saw your pic.

[bombdotcom]

I think I do and that's all that matters. When I give someone the power of making ME feel beautiful I am also giving them the power to make me feel ugly. So if someone calls me beautiful and I let that make me feel beautiful, if they call me ugly then that will also make me feel ugly. I have to live with my face at the end of the day.

I'm either gonna live a long life or a short life. But life is too short to be unhappy with myself

[Opinion Owner]

Let her... if she has low self-esteem because of it then go for it. But HEED the warning. I haven't seen her pic or have too see it to say realize that natural > fake.

[Opinion Owner]

Ah, I was correct. why did I even bother looking at her pic? You look like your Latina? You can pass for Cuban?

[bombdotcom]

What does my race have to do with anything? oh wait, this is girlsaskguys where the determining factor of beauty is your race.

bye

[latinapassion]

If you say so :o You shouldn't let people dictate your life whether they feel you are ugly or not. JLike you said said YOU ARE giving them that power. Just imagine in the long run, you will honestly allow people to dictate the way you act? what your goals are? how you should treats other? You are obviously care too much with what people say.

[Opinion Owner]

You can pass for black too.

[Opinion Owner]

why are you mad?... w/e. Not wasting my time and latin, you shouldn't either.

[bombdotcom]

And that's why I said I'm not seeking approval from people on here. Ultimately it's my face, my body and my money.

And again, why does my race matter?

[Opinion Owner]

I never said your race matter, did I? there is nothing wrong in asking. If you have a problem asking what your race is, then simply say you rather keep that part of your life personal. In all honesty, you seem to have an identity problem. You seem very much insecure.

[bombdotcom]

No, I'm not insecure. I have no problem with my race. I guess I shouldn't be surprised that people on here are so obsessed with race. That question is beside the point. it had nothing to do with my initial question. now bye.

[latinapassion]

You ARE seeking approval here otherwise this question wouldn't have been asked. I am glad I am also majoring is psychology, because I am able to see deeper into things. You probably don't see it, but you are indeed allowing people dictate your life whether you see it or not. And like you said, it is ultimately your face, body, and money. Go ahead and do what you like, but I am going to let you that these insecurities come from people you allow to dictate your life. You do care for approval.

[bombdotcom]

Majoring in psychology doesn't mean you can actually analyze people lmao. But whatever makes you feel better

[Opinion Owner]

Latin, you NAILED it. Either that or she is fishing for compliments.

[bombdotcom]

Why would I fish for compliments? People on here will call a horses ass beautiful.

[latinapassion]

Psychologists study such phenomena as perception, cognition, attention, emotion, motivation, personality, behavior and interpersonal relationships. Some, especially depth psychologists, also consider the unconscious mind. I have just studied the information you provided ;)

In all I can also see you fishing for compliments in the what's observable and putting 2 and 2 together.

[bombdotcom]

All I see are two people copying what the other is saying and repeating it as though it's their own idea.

[latinapassion]

Evidence

1. Your picture is left to the public to see (not much insecurities when it come to physical appearance) <--- you will come back and say, that pic pertain to people answering the question? ok...that's fine but here's my number 2

2. You gotten so much positive feedback regarding your physical beauty. they tell you, you don't need it, you keep insisting --- (wants more compliments)

3 Update: Means I want everyone to tell me NO

4. You are dating <--- (someone was attracted to that beauty)

[bombdotcom]

That's not evidence. And again, I'm not trying to impress anyone on here. People on here will call anyone pretty.

And plastic surgery is not about attracting the opposite sex. I don't care what any guy on here or even my boyfriend thinks. Because 10 years from now if I'm not with him it won't matter. But again, I have to look in the mirror and live with myself.

So you can take your pseudo psychology and both of your accounts and get off of my question

[Opinion Owner]

Lol, latin... the hell?! You are dangerous. Why do you even bother though? Came from the kitchen and I see that you guys are on it -.-

[latinapassion]

More evidence:

She chose best answer to a person who is actually telling her to go ahead and do the surgeries. This is her making us "believe" that she is indeed insecure but we are too smart for that, which means to not to waste it with her. You were right anon.

[latinapassion]

but she isn't that dumb. Her UPDATE coincide with the answer she chose, to make it look more believable that she is insecure.

[Opinion Owner]

LOL! Latin how many crimes have you committed and gotten away with? You need to add me.. in all seriousness... she also did it to attack us.

[bombdotcom]

Yeah, right. Bye

[bombdotcom]

It's pretty sad that you have 2 accounts lmao. I didn't attack anyone. you feel attacked cause I'm not taking what you're saying to heart. now bye.

[latinapassion]

What is actually pretty sad is that when 2 people actually coincide with the same answer or get on her she says, we are ONE, when is false. Her Bye Signifies -- I truly lost. You see what I am saying anon, is easy to decode? and you still haven't sent me a friend request :( lol :P

[Opinion Owner]

I did sent it o.O Lemme try again.

[bombdotcom]

No, this goodbye signifies I'm tired of a troll with a multiple account commenting through a female account named Latinapassion. pretty sad

[latinapassion]

Got your friend request!

More proof: She says bye and she seems to not stick with it. why wasn't she able to stick to it? because I got to her. She says, "No, this goodbye signifies I'm tired of a troll with a multiple account" ...really? then why comment back if you were that tired?

Am I the only one laughing?

[Opinion Owner]

Speak to me. Forget her Lol. And you don't have to post it here that you got the friend request it's pretty obvious :p

[latinapassion]

I have to go though. I have to type a paper.

[bh6676r942]

Yeah I do