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Never assume, like most people, talking and communicating are one and the same. Talking is sharing details, while communication is showing a desire to see things through the other person's eyes... Relationships

I did once, until I got her response when I did send her a letter. That response confronted me with the reality that I was in love with the concept of love and saw what I expected and wanted to... Relationships

To determine whether you are just a rebound, ask him to share what he's learned about himself and potential partners from his past relationships. Focus on what he's learned, not details about past... Dating

Looks are always important, but we become more realistic as we get older. Primarily, we value people who take care of themselves. That's not fancy hair, makeup, nails, clothing, etc. It's about... Dating

It's important for us to see words and actions meshing together. That is very hard to do when we rarely see each other in person. With little contact, we tend to either see what we want to see or... Relationships

The key is to turn this into a learning experience. If possible, let him know you want to work on yourself and would appreciate any input he can give to give you greater insight into how others... Break Up & Divorce

When we enter a relationship, we take on more than just the person. We take on their family, their culture and their history. Had you researched the Chinese culture and indoctrination, you would... Relationships

This is a good learning experience for you. Never say one thing when you want another. Don't say "Let's save money and not buy each other Christmas gifts this year," if you'll get upset by not... Relationships

Anyone who chooses to cut off his kid is not someone to be relied on. If that's the proof you need to feel loved, then you don't know what love is. What happens when he cuts you and your child... Relationships

People cheat when there is a void in the relationship and they feel inadequate to address the void with their partner. It could be that the partner has stopped self-care, but it could also be... Relationships

I'd pass on anyone who felt it necessary to withhold any information. Obviously, the STDs would be the only thing that might impact your health and life, but what do you have to gain by playing... Dating

People here seem to be focusing on potential financial losses. Though there is basis in seeing that as a factor, another major factor can be the man's loss of self. Either he conforms to her... Relationships

We generally feel we're not good enough when we're unclear as to what the other person sees in us or expects of us. Assuming they're focusing on what they perceive as our potential rather than who... Dating

Hormones determine love, not compatibility. There is no right or wrong when it comes to what people seek from a relationship, but it's important there is clear, open, honest communication from the... Relationships

I want you to forget about the number 7. Whatever you do, do not think about 7. Seven is not the number you'll be thinking about. Now what is this number you're not thinking about? The brain... Relationships

Time does nothing but exist. If you focus on your ex for 20 years, nothing will heal. If you move on and focus on what will move you forward, you'll start feeling better about yourself and your... Break Up & Divorce

When you're being used for sex, your partner is pressuring you to have sex early in the relationship. See if he considers your feelings or tells you what you should feel or do. Does he primarily... Dating

Just make sure both have resolved adolescence before tying the knot. There are just too many changes that take place during adolescence, so no one can predict what the exact outcome will be. We go... Dating

Though kids selfishly want their parents to stay together, that is the worst thing you can do for them. Kids are better off with stable parents apart than unstable parents together. You are... Relationships

This is like asking whether people with dogs or cats have greater chances of staying together. The likelihood is more closely related to the communication and teamwork between them than where they... Relationships