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Knowledge allows us to grow. Without knowledge, we just keep doing what we've always been doing, increasing the odds of getting similar results in the future. When a partner or ex helps us see... Relationships

People fight because they don't know how to communicate. They are so focused on being heard, that no one takes the time to actually consider the other person's perspective. It's hard to fight when... Relationships

It's like a shopaholic. Though the search and chase are exciting, actual ownership tends to be a letdown. You may have been a challenge for him, but it could be he knows nothing about nurturing a... Relationships

Extremes tend to be balanced by the opposite extreme, so choosing to be closer to the center tends to be more stable over time. It's not about being selfish or being selfless. What tends to be... Relationships

That's like asking whether wearing green, brown or black shoes might help you in walking. Different means of sending and receiving messages doesn't have anything to do with the quality of... Relationships

Focusing on one aspect of a relationship will never give you an enduring quality meaningful relationship. Never put all your eggs in one basket. The key is to learn all you can about your partner,... Relationships

When making a statement, make sure it is clear. Never expect others to read your mind. When someone makes a statement out of the blue, the other person will be confused as to what it actually... Relationships

It's interesting how many people present their opinion as factual. Do your research and then believe what makes sense to you... not what others indoctrinate you to believe. By doing research,... Relationships

People, especially guys, don't like change, so they're likely to settle for what they have, even if they're disappointed with what they have. Leaving the relationship can incur significant costs,... Relationships

Absence of negative doesn't make for positive. If you go to a buffet, and everything looks disgusting, so you choose not to eat, will you feel full after that meal? If we never feel loss, we'll... Relationships

What used to captivate me about women, though it seems to be seen more rarely in them nowadays, is kindness and consideration. Now, you're more likely to see self-centered entitlement than... Dating

Clear open honest communication and a legitimate effort to show consideration for the other rather than focus on any sense of entitlement. To get trust, we must give trust. To say I'll trust you... Dating

I always find it odd reading these types of questions. "Is it okay to have a relationship with someone who rapes my daughter every day?" This is your life to live, and only you can determine if a... Relationships

Our society tends to promote extremes, and calmness is seen as the opposite of that. People who seek extremes often expect those extremes to be provided by others. The more we rely on others to... Dating

It sounds like there are two issues going on, the physical pain and the rut the two of you find yourselves in. As far as the physical pain goes, get an evaluation at a medical school. Teaching... Relationships

How serious people feel has nothing to do with their circumstances. Being serious is something we create and nurture within ourselves. It's the emotional and caring connection and bond we build... Relationships

When there is a void in our life, we tend to focus on the last time that void was filled. Therefore, you'll be thinking about your last relationship. It becomes very difficult to move on if we... Relationships

That's like asking why your man doesn't wear dresses. It's because he doesn't choose to. Stop reading and believing all the garbage written here and elsewhere that all guys cheat. Pay attention to... Relationships

It is important to respect people's choices. That doesn't mean we need to choose people whose beliefs are contrary to ours, but how can we expect consideration for others if we don't give... Marriage & Weddings

The first step is to be observant. Look for signs of whatever might interest him, and then ask him about that interest. Comment on answers he gives in class, especially if the answers help you... Relationships