This is obviously old-fashioned and it's where a woman would win a man's love with delicious meals.
What if he's already a great cook himself (better than the woman) or even an expert chef? In that case, would just making him delicous meals to make him fall in love fail?
Focusing on one aspect of a relationship will never give you an enduring quality meaningful relationship. Never put all your eggs in one basket. The key is to learn all you can about your partner, so you can discover what matters most to him. You want to address all areas that are important to him, not just one... especially if the one is what you want to do or assume he wants you to do, without finding out the truth. Everyone is different. Never assume a particular game plan will work in all games.
If, on the other hand, you aren't looking to do just one thing and just want to know how a partner will react to your effort not measuring up to his, that is a different story. A quality partner will never expect you to surpass him in all areas. He would probably appreciate your curiosity to improve your own cooking skills. Doing things with a partner adds value to that experience. Let him know you'd love cooking with him, and show an eagerness to learn. He wasn't born with the knowledge he has. Also, be prepared to laugh at your own mistakes, and don't expect perfection from yourself... just a good effort. Make it a fun experience rather than being serious or treating it as an obligatory chore.
It's still true, but rather than just cooking for him, spend time cooking with him. I'm s pretty good cook and I love spending time cooking with people, so we have not just the food, but the quality time making it together
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Yes it'll likely fail if he's a great cook himself. Then again, if only one single area in a relationship becomes the main focus then it'll fail miserably. It means you don't know the person very well. I learnt the hard way that's not all it takes and here I am, still childless and single at the age of 35.
Thinking that every single men will fall in love by just feeding his stomach is the same as men thinking all women will love him if he buys us jewelry or expensive perfumes. I'm not a fan of jewels, don't even wear make-up and I'm allergic to strong perfumes. How about be honest, punctual and turn your words into actions?
😂 I always wondered what Ramsey's wife does. Does she dare try to cook him something? He's such a critic!
My dad was a wayyyyy better cook than my mom. However, anyone could win him over with delicious food. They were both pretty happy with their arrangement. He was the cook and she cleaned.
No, it does not fail. Actually, I love it.
Not gonna lie, I cook pretty well. My wife is a stay at home mom and won't touch the kitchen. She just never learned and doesn't care for it.
But ill tell you, I fall hard for girls who can cook. Maybe because it so foreign to me. This has, and continues to be a problem for me. Girls give me a home cooked meal and i be like "im in love". Lol
As a great cook myself, I can tell you yes, it definitely fails to hook me.
The way to my heart is shared interests and hobbies, intelligence, kindness, and being cute in both looks and behavior.
Looking for a mate is looking for a life time job, Traditionally for women that meant their ability to cook was a good selling point
Well I dated a chef and so working over 50 hrs a week, was never in the mood to cook for himself… so that might work still.. I’m that scenario
No. It might actually improve relations. Imagine if they're both well to do in that area, they could each other to even higher heights in their cooking skills. It's also great fun to do that together.
I would still say yes because the main idea behind the proverb is at least to me the act not so much the meal itself. I think many guys like it if a woman takes effort to really do something for him.
You could think about baking if it´s more appropriate to you but I don´t think you can fail that way.
No. I appreciate any one who can cook, but it is a sad thing today that the majority of women in the 18-30 year old demographic do not have the skills to cook simple meals, spaghetti with bolognese sauce for instance.
Not necessarily. Nothing tastes better than a great meal cooked by the woman you love. The food tastes like love and you can't beat that recipe with any other ingredient.
Hehehe, i feel addressed now since i Cook myself. I can tell you cooking won't win my heart so much.
A girl can win my heart by loving me, giving me massages and having plenty of sexy sex with me.
I am a great cook myself. Not only can I cook food from all over the world but know the detailed history, and origins of most food cultures, and translated old recipes from Chinese, Latin, Victorian English, Sanskrit, and French. But other cooking can impress me but not like other guys.
Although I am not a professional chef but a scientist, it's just my hobby. Anyways a girl putting effort is always appreciative as most don't bother to do anything for their guys these days.
It's the thought and the effort that counts. Only a total asshole would criticize a woman who was making an honest effort because they are a better cook.
The old adage always applies...
"Keep a man's stomach full and his balls empty."
not necessarily, it’s not just the food it’s that you like him enough to want to cook for him as a kind gesture that would get to our ❤️
I'd say it'd still work. It's not the outcome that's important, it's the reason.
Then worship is ego as a chef and learn what needs he has and do the grocery shopping.
I'm a great cook and i don't think so. And actually be more happy to cook for my wife. Her way to my heart would be how she assist and for her to show support and appreciation.
Only if food represents pleasure apart from sex. If all you offer is sex then you'll be used like a prostitute, or like he uses his own right hand.
fuck that. now cook for me women !!! also clean the house bitch
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