I guess it depends on the type of "doubts" you're talking about.
If you mean "doubts" in terms of thinking your partner is lying or cheating... then I'd agree with you. I don't understand how anyone can suspect their partner of with of those things, and just stay together without "resolving" those doubts.
However, if you mean "doubts" as in... the myriad of things that can make someone question whether their partner is right for them for one of the more "usual" reasons (like the "traits" kinda stuff. Bad habits, tendencies etc). Then I don't agree with you in the same way. Because... it's complicated.
It's like a balancing act between the things you love about a partner on the one-hand, and their "flaws" (which we all have) on the other side of the scale. Even the best relationships require both parties to accept flaws in their partner. It's just... those flaws can wax-and-wane in how significantly they affect the relationship. (in how much the flaw matters)
Sometimes, being disorganized and forgetting shit... is annoying to a partner. Sometimes it's a big fucking-deal because of WHAT the other person happened to fuck-up as a result of having this trait for disorganization that usually you're able to accept because it doesn't cause problems.
So then there's all the complications of history, love and attachment and future hopes and all that jazz playing ito the equation in various ways... So... it makes sense to me that somebody could find themselves saying: "Shit, I really do love them, but this disorganization thing CAN sometimes really be an actual problem. Am I prepared to continue this relationship because of the love and history and future hopes etc? Or do I need to look for someone who doesn't have this flaw. (to talke a dumb example).
But it's not as simple as "I have some doubts/concerns... so... you're obviously not the right person for me so we should break-up." There's so much complicated the whole thing. It's always going to be "a balancing act" but like... while juggling swords blindfolded. The shit gets complicated. There's a lot going on that need to be taken-into-account at the same time.
People, especially guys, don't like change, so they're likely to settle for what they have, even if they're disappointed with what they have. Leaving the relationship can incur significant costs, and starting over can be stressful. It can be easier to just make the most of what exists or disconnecting in place. Settling is never truly satisfying, and it's common to feel relieved when the relationship actually ends.
A known devil better than an unknown angel. also probably being bored of the whole dating games what makes us sometimes settle to something that won't workout.
If we'd know for sure upon first getting together, many more people would be in a relationship, but I don't have that foresight.
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I do not know except they hoping for a change. I thought you swore off men...
Usually it's because the relationship isn't actually that bad, and ending the relationship makes you look and feel like the bad person. Especially if your doubts turn out to be unfounded.
Everybody has insecurities and has doubts, and most of the time there’s nothing going on at all if you jump the gun and pull the trigger then you’re destroyed an innocent relationship
Feelings, wishful thinking hoping you’re wrong and it will work out and worry you won’t find someone better anyway.
Because some people just can't stomach the idea of being single. I think neediness plays a role too.
Fear of being alone or familiarity. I don't understand it either. I'd rather be single than in a bad relationship.
That's because they always jump in head-first without looking. Lol
People end things too fast.
You can’t just give up. You gotta work through it with your partner and make things work.
The number one reason being they don't think they can find someone else
They still love the person
Because something ia better than nothing
because they always think they can change people
Toxicity
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