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My best friend thinks she has a chance with me but I don't want to hurt her feelings?
This is one of those situations where you have to be clear. Even if it means hurting her feelings. In the long-run, you'll actually hurt her feelings less if you're clear about where things stand.... Relationships
Would you break up with someone if you wouldn't date a smoker and they ONLY started smoking after you started dating?
This... made me laugh. As someone whose been a smoker for 20 years... Yea... if he STARTED smoking after you two were together, then yes, you're totally right. He is not addicted to smoking... Dating
Do guys find masculine women attractive?
Personally, I do not find a masculine woman attractive. I'm also not looking for a damsel in distress girly girl. But, honestly the way you've described yourself here... is super unattractive to... Dating
Out of town guy said he was trying not to have a one night stand w me out of respect, but I was really hurt?
I can appreciate where you're coming from in feeling hurt. I can tell you that you shouldn't be... insofar as: **What you heard was not what this guy was saying** So, If I am reading this... Dating
Should I always talk to her first OR wait for her to talk to me first?
I think you might be overthinking this. Or at least I think you're going about this the wrong way. You DO need to be sure that your interest in reciprocated, but I would not do it by waiting for... Dating
I know he loves me no matter what but what if he’s no longer attracted to me? What if he’s disappointed in what I’ve become?
He won't be. You've been with him for 4 years. He loves you. He is not going to be unattracted to you. He's not even going to be less attracted to you. He's still going to see YOU (despite however... Relationships
How important is long hair to guys?
I'll be honest with you. If I could see pictures, I'm sure I would hate your haircut. Personally, l hate really short hair on girls. That being said, who the fuck cares what I think or what... Dating
Does friends with benefits work?
It can work as long as nobody develops romantic feelings. If you can keep those out of it on both sides. Yes it can work. That being said, romantic feeling (usually on the woman's side, frankly)... Dating
I Never Seem To Be Good Enough For Men. Will I Ever Find Love?
I think you will find love one day. I am really sorry that you've had so much heart-ache in your past. You sound like someone who has a lot of love to give, you just haven't found someone to... Relationships
If a man says “thank you” to a woman is he being Simpistic?
I am sure I'm misunderstanding something here. It seems too absurd. Are you actually saying: It's not ok to say "thank you" to a woman, in any and all situations? If you're in a situation... Dating
Would you date a 5’7 / 5’8 girl?
Awww of course! What kind of question is that! I don't even quite understand if you're insecure about being short or insecure about being tall. That's depressing. Guys really don't care about... Dating
Guys, what's your intention when you offer to drive a girl for a meal? Won't you feel awkward that only the two of you are in the car?
The answer is "no" it wouldn't be awkward. Here's why: Either, you are friends with this guy, and therefore wouldn't even THINK about it "being awkward" with just the two of you in the car...... Dating
How do I cope with being forever alone and not belonging anywhere?
Hey!😀... it's the weird girl with the cat! (weird in a good way). I have actually been thinking about you since I read you last question about how you moved so often, and didn't really feel like... Relationships
Why can't I just get a normal answer without any short answer for wondering about a asking a single or not?
I'm sorry. I got a bit confused. Are you asking how to best "ask a guy if he's single?" Feel free to message me if that's easier Dating
Are my feelings of anger, disgust and humiliation normal?
I'm so sorry this happened to you!! That's awful. I would say that your feelings are all PERFECTLY normal. In fact... you're feeling exactly how anyone would expect to feel. What you've been... Relationships
If a guy on tinder asks me for dinner vs asking to just hang out, does that mean he isn’t looking for sex? Or is he just trying harder?
I think that depends a lot on what your profile looks like, as well as how your conversation went. My advice is to be super clear about what YOU want. And then, if he's just looking for a hookup,... Dating
Acting cold as a “punishment”?
You need to text him. Acting cold as punishment is some grade-school bullshit that has no place in your adult relationship. Now, it sounds like you are actually doing a pretty good job at... Relationships
Why would a guy be jealous of a girl?
That... does not sound like jealousy. That sounds like a bad friend. He isn't jealous of you as a person, he's just being an asshole. Dating
Am I unlikeable?
So, this question made me sad. Then I read your update... it made me feel even worse. THEN I thought: "wait... maybe some asshole called her 'fat' in the comments... and she's referencing it... Dating
Why would a couple who has been together for 11 years and who also have a child together not have married each other yet?
Marriage isn't important for some people. Lots of couples are together for years and have kids without ever having a wedding. In most places, for all legal purposes you're considered the same as... Relationships
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