Was that sarcasm? Despite what people are taught, marriage pre-feminism in a lot of areas really sucked for men a lot worse than it did for women. How would you like to go to jail if your wife comments a crime? Or how would you feel if legally you had to provide for her, but if she had a job, you had no right to her money? A "successful marriage" isn't the same as a happy marriage.
Maybe you have to do your own research. Saying that an article or an opinion is badly written because there is no references is pretty much a short cut to thinking. Do you go to a restaurant and eat a meal without knowing exactly who cooked it? Most likely. Do you ask where that food came from? Not likely.
There is no ill emotions, this was a rational non-emotional or personal take. It's a fact, there are more women than men in america. Divorce laws a prejudice against men. And half of all marriages fail. and it gets worse the more times you marry. This is logistics, men have no incentive, but females have plenty i'm sure. But either way marriages rates are falling, and men just don't want to marry. And you are good to go since you women are "strong, independent and don't need a man"
You dont cite any of your sources and you blame womens impowerment and rights for the reason you can't get your dick wet. "This is logistics, men have no incentive, but females have plenty i'm sure." What is that even supposed to mean? You sound bitter even in your responses to me. You see things in black and white, its not the 1950s anymore. The working mother is a good percentage of the population. My best friends parents have been married for 20yrs in a "both parents work, both parents clean, both parents care for the children" relationship. Its not the type of relationship but rather the people in it. I dont plan on being a stay at home mother, that would kill me. I have a good mind, why would i waste that just staring at four walls and changing diapers? I plan on getting a PhD, i love children, but being a fulltime mother or fulltime worker isn't good for either my future children or myself. You need a balance.
Not thats there's anything wrong with one parent staying home, but i dont think it should be forced on someone because they have certain genitals in their pants.
Now i know you are lying, because if you plan on getting a PHD then hopefully you are smart enough to figure out that you will not raise the child. You will not have enough time for this child, and if you do for some reason decide to have a child because you are selfish enough to have this child live through his childhood without his mother, then you will have to have a nanny. Your child will suffer due to the nanny being the replacement of the mother while knowing that he still has a mother, a mother cannot replace herself with a hired nanny. I can give more stats if you want.
"You dont cite any of your sources and you blame womens impowerment and rights for the reason you can't get your dick wet." I don't think you know that hookers exist... you are replaced.
Glad im replaced because people like you shouldn't reproduce. And gee, maybe ill get my PhD before i have children. My mother had me at 40, i plan on having children in the 30-40 age range. And geared towards sexism again, my child may not be a "he". I would be a good role model to get a PhD, so they could see that getting an education and following your dreams and having a family is possible. You do realize in your utopia of a traditional family, the father works. So whats the difference if the mother works? Also you preach of a perfect traditional family yet you seem to love hookers, real wholesome. Sorry that your mommy didn't coddle you, but grow up. Its possible to be a working and hands on mother, so if youve got mommy issues you should probably talk to your mommy about them huh?
There is a big difference. men work more. We were made to work. It's actually to a point if a man stops working early and has nothing to do, he will die. And no one is going to reproduce with you, your a feminist. you seem to have this hubris of you that you are just going to reel a man in your forties and have a child all on purpose. Sorry sweetheart but by then you wouldn't be a physically attractive young woman. It ends around 35 when men officially stop looking at you the way they looked at you during the 20's. My utopia? how is it my utopia?
Oh believe me, ill be married waaay before you so you dont have to worry about me finding a husband. And yes, i am a feminist amd damn proud of it. Men werent made to work. People were. And what i was saying completely flew over your head (surprise suprise). How are men not selfish for working instead of taking care of the children? No woman will want you because you somehow think you are better than women. Believe me, you're far from it. No woman would want an insulting, selfish, degrading, tool of a husband.
And i love how you just want to put me down and call me names already just because I have evidence that your chances of having children or marriage is getting lower than the already low chance you have. Did you not want to reply about my comment of you being selfish and just wanting to get your career and "prove" something? You are choosing your career over your child, and you are not even married or divorced yet. You have chosen to basically have a child but not the responsibility of it and ignoring the consequences of using a "replacement mother" or nanny. Is a child an accessory to you? Science proves over and over the importance of the mother being there for the whole childhood. It also proves even more the importance of the father being there.
Yet you just want do what? Pop out a child and go to work and expect everything to be fine? Are you a child who grew up like this? is this why you are so bitchy?
It's quite simple, mothers are suppose to be there for the child while the father works. Women on average do not work more then men, even today. It's evolution, It's been like this for thousands of years. I'm not saying that mothers never worked, cause being a mother is extremely hard. But through out history they never went out for the resources. This is why women are healthier and live longer, it's because nature intended them to take care of the children while the men went out and got resources. Why do you think men are bigger, stronger, faster? Why do you think men invented just about everything?
Wake the fuck up, you are not going to work more than a man when it comes to careers. Seriously this is how the 77 cents to a dollar myth came about, and how it was found out by a lot of females that females even today when more are in college then men and have more scholarships and are accepted more due to affirmative action that they willingly choose careers that pay less.
And no man would want a man-woman thinking that she has to prove something about being a woman. You go ahead, but by time you are forty you will not marry. No man wants a man hating feminist. wake the fuck up, we don't find you attractive.
What evidence? Your own opinions? In the real world we call that bullshit. I want a career because i wasn't just born to reproduce. I have a mind, im intellgent, i want to contribute to society. Its not selfish because i would have a career before i had a child and do it part time once my child was born (which i said a while ago). And i would never have a nanny, i suppose with being out of touch with reality you also dont know the value of a dollar. My mom stayed home for me, but she put me in daycare starting at age 2 because i needed to socialize with other children. Soo whats so different with workinh and doing the same thing she did? "It also proves even more the importance of the father being there." So if the father is sooo important why doesn't he stay home with the kids? You also fail to realize that children start school at 4 years old and are there for the majority of the day. That allows women to work during the day and be there for their children after school. Maybe im so
When the earth was a hunter gatherer society women got the reasources too. And no woman will ever love you because you are such a woman basher who thinks he is better than everyone else. You wake the fuck up. Look at our world. Its becoming much more open minded and you either need to get the fuck used to it or get the fuck out of it
Ohh so let me get this straight. You want a full time successful career yet you also want a child. You're not going to have a good relationship with your child AND be a successful professional. How do you think you're going to manage both? Oh even better your mother was cheap and just put you in a daycare. Nothing wrong with socializing with children, but she did leave you to go to work. And a father is need for approval, it is known that single mother children are more likely to get divorce and go into crime. Don't forget mental problems thefatherlessgeneration.wordpress.com/statistics/ Men need to be in a child's life. For both male and female children. The difference in gender behaviors is the reason. Woman and man are biologically different. www.cfcidaho.org/why-children-need-male-and-female-parent
And i understand you have daddy issues. you really think a fatherless woman who has something against men is going to marry you? Also who is a man hating feminist? Stop kidding yourself.
you're wrong, my mom didn't work, so dont put words in my mouth. Maybe you need to get your eyes checked because i said i would be part time once i have a child 3 times. And i had a father at one point and all he did was beat, molest, and verbally abuse me. I want to have a husband but not if it means he will be like you or like him. Im much stronger and more independent from not having a father and i dont need anyones approval because i know right from wrong and i know when I've accomplished something. I will be successfull, and i will be a great wife and mother. I know hoe to juggle life because i already do that between high school, college, friends, and cross country. I know my limits, so i dont need a random stranger dictating them to me
I dont hate men in the slightest, three of my best friends are male, i just dont want to be around a misogynistic idiot such as yourself. Oh and my male friends, yeah theyre also feminists. Get out of conservative country and step into the real world
your om didn't work, yet still put you in daycare. ouch. So you do have daddy issues. (or your lying). You're going to be a great wife in your view. but it's not up to you to judge whether you are a great wife or not. You are the one that attacked me, you called man child for no reason. You say i can't get my dick wet. Yet at the same time you say that you are going to be a wonderful wife and mother. You are not even a good human. And you blame men. Again no man, in his right mind would marry a woman with daddy issues, and has a thing against men. wake up.
She put me in to socialize, as i have said a million times. And speaking behalf of being a good human or not, you're the one who created a whole take just to bash women. As i said, i dont hate men, just hate your type. Lemme put it in caps this time just so you can see. I DONT HATE MEN, JUST HATE YOUR TYPE. Those who give respect get respect. You will never get it. And daddy issues really aren't a problem considering i havemt talked to my father in 8yrs, and honestly, i dont really give a shot whether you find me suitable for marriage or not because i would never even take a glance at someone with your ideals
oh please quote me where i said i hate women or am bashing them I only said that men are choosing nto to marry and it's because of feminism Feminism does not speak for all women, and it's not the owner of them. I only pointed out that logistically speaking 53% of marriages fail, and courts are prejudice against males. And feminists support this. Because of this males don't want to marry. And no man would ever glance at a woman who hates men like you. Seriously, marriage is not what men will think about when thinking of you. You have daddy issues, most men hate feminists, most men are not going to marry, there are more females in america then there are males. It all adds up. And trying to say that i won't ever find a woman is kind of funny since i'm not looking for one, i'm busy being a student and after that i'll be busy with work. If i want female attention i will pay for it, just like a traditional relationship ;) Face it, you have a lot to compete with and your feminism isn't helping
In my take i was just pointing out that woman will not have a lot of choices when it comes to men. I never said that men don't have their problems or that i am blaming woman for anything. I'm pointing out facts. Do you want me to link them again? Seriously you can argue about this all day and you will lose to the fact that there are less men available for marriage.
Dear lord you're so amusing. You think at 16 im looking for a husband either? XD i dont hate men as i have said before. I think at this point its best to just drain the poison from this conversation and say that we are two very different people looking for two very different people. You dont know my whole personality, you dont know my appearance, nor do i know yours. Im just very passionate about my beliefs, so i think we both need to take a chill pill
Then why did you say that you want children are are going to marry as you put it "wayyyy" earlier then me? why are you contradicting yourself? the only person looking for anyone here is you, i don't care. You call me man child first and didn't want to debate and just attack me. You say i can't get my dick wet. What exactly makes you think that marriage will simply come to you? Even if you are a physically attractive woman, eventually that will all fade away and you will be left with your personality and attitude.(unless you have Alzheimers then that fades too). I can comfortably say that about 90% of all men either have a distaste or simply just don't like feminists.
I don't want to debate feminism or ideals. I only am pointing out that half of marriages fail, and divorce courts are relentlessly prejudice against men. That is what men look at logistically, and think to themselves (why not just have a girlfriend or not even at all and just do hookers and video games?)
nope not at all. again half of all marriages fail, 80% of all divorce papers served is by women. Courts are relentlessly prejudice against men. This is called logistics.
So what if more women file for divorce? It's not like they one day wake up and decide to get a divorce out of the blue without having encountered any problems in the relationship. Learn to use statistics wisely...
I am sorry you feel wronged but no one cares so just get used to being left and butthurt all the time. Not all of us are entitled to happy relationships... Specially not you. :D
My goodness are you mad :) That's the thing though i don't care. And again no emotions or sadness is coming from me. I only pointed out the fact that you and along with other feminists will simply not have a man. I'm sorry that you are offended by the fact the the playing field will be extremely competitive for you. You can call me names all you want but you won't escape the truth. Anyways have a good day my salty friend.
Even if he did have trust issues, he has every right to. Why not? I mean past experiences and life situations are there so we can learn from them and protect ourselves and guide us to how we want to live our lives. I was never really into men's issues or even becoming an advocate for them until I had a run in with a bad women who I was in a relationship with. We learn from life situations.
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yep, and marriage was healthy pre-feminism.
Was that sarcasm? Despite what people are taught, marriage pre-feminism in a lot of areas really sucked for men a lot worse than it did for women. How would you like to go to jail if your wife comments a crime? Or how would you feel if legally you had to provide for her, but if she had a job, you had no right to her money? A "successful marriage" isn't the same as a happy marriage.
I think he meant healthier
it's pretty also woman put "Friendzone" is misandry effect on guy is to begin misogyny.
This take was badly written.
Why was it badly written?
No sources. @MrChadeo920
Maybe you have to do your own research. Saying that an article or an opinion is badly written because there is no references is pretty much a short cut to thinking. Do you go to a restaurant and eat a meal without knowing exactly who cooked it? Most likely. Do you ask where that food came from? Not likely.
Someone needs to get laid
Women make comments like this, and then they complain about being sexualized or being seen as good for only one thing!
Hookers ;)
see you're replaced already.
He seems super bitter towards women, butthurt, hence my comment. Calm your tits evenlift.
There is no ill emotions, this was a rational non-emotional or personal take.
It's a fact, there are more women than men in america. Divorce laws a prejudice against men. And half of all marriages fail. and it gets worse the more times you marry.
This is logistics, men have no incentive, but females have plenty i'm sure.
But either way marriages rates are falling, and men just don't want to marry. And you are good to go since you women are "strong, independent and don't need a man"
You dont cite any of your sources and you blame womens impowerment and rights for the reason you can't get your dick wet. "This is logistics, men have no incentive, but females have plenty i'm sure." What is that even supposed to mean? You sound bitter even in your responses to me. You see things in black and white, its not the 1950s anymore. The working mother is a good percentage of the population. My best friends parents have been married for 20yrs in a "both parents work, both parents clean, both parents care for the children" relationship. Its not the type of relationship but rather the people in it. I dont plan on being a stay at home mother, that would kill me. I have a good mind, why would i waste that just staring at four walls and changing diapers? I plan on getting a PhD, i love children, but being a fulltime mother or fulltime worker isn't good for either my future children or myself. You need a balance.
Not thats there's anything wrong with one parent staying home, but i dont think it should be forced on someone because they have certain genitals in their pants.
Lol. Funny.
It's so sad seeing some of you females grab at straws.
Divorce stats:
https://www.divorcestatistics.org/
www.mckinleyirvin.com/.../...vorce-Statistics.aspx
Here is a graph of mens work hours (surpirse surprise) and men suffering 94% of workplace deaths: graphics8.nytimes.com/.../menwomenfatalities.jpg
Now i know you are lying, because if you plan on getting a PHD then hopefully you are smart enough to figure out that you will not raise the child. You will not have enough time for this child, and if you do for some reason decide to have a child because you are selfish enough to have this child live through his childhood without his mother, then you will have to have a nanny. Your child will suffer due to the nanny being the replacement of the mother while knowing that he still has a mother, a mother cannot replace herself with a hired nanny.
I can give more stats if you want.
"You dont cite any of your sources and you blame womens impowerment and rights for the reason you can't get your dick wet."
I don't think you know that hookers exist... you are replaced.
Glad im replaced because people like you shouldn't reproduce. And gee, maybe ill get my PhD before i have children. My mother had me at 40, i plan on having children in the 30-40 age range. And geared towards sexism again, my child may not be a "he". I would be a good role model to get a PhD, so they could see that getting an education and following your dreams and having a family is possible. You do realize in your utopia of a traditional family, the father works. So whats the difference if the mother works? Also you preach of a perfect traditional family yet you seem to love hookers, real wholesome. Sorry that your mommy didn't coddle you, but grow up. Its possible to be a working and hands on mother, so if youve got mommy issues you should probably talk to your mommy about them huh?
There is a big difference. men work more.
We were made to work. It's actually to a point if a man stops working early and has nothing to do, he will die.
And no one is going to reproduce with you, your a feminist. you seem to have this hubris of you that you are just going to reel a man in your forties and have a child all on purpose.
Sorry sweetheart but by then you wouldn't be a physically attractive young woman. It ends around 35 when men officially stop looking at you the way they looked at you during the 20's.
My utopia? how is it my utopia?
you're*
Oh believe me, ill be married waaay before you so you dont have to worry about me finding a husband. And yes, i am a feminist amd damn proud of it. Men werent made to work. People were. And what i was saying completely flew over your head (surprise suprise). How are men not selfish for working instead of taking care of the children? No woman will want you because you somehow think you are better than women. Believe me, you're far from it. No woman would want an insulting, selfish, degrading, tool of a husband.
And i love how you just want to put me down and call me names already just because I have evidence that your chances of having children or marriage is getting lower than the already low chance you have.
Did you not want to reply about my comment of you being selfish and just wanting to get your career and "prove" something? You are choosing your career over your child, and you are not even married or divorced yet. You have chosen to basically have a child but not the responsibility of it and ignoring the consequences of using a "replacement mother" or nanny.
Is a child an accessory to you? Science proves over and over the importance of the mother being there for the whole childhood. It also proves even more the importance of the father being there.
Yet you just want do what? Pop out a child and go to work and expect everything to be fine? Are you a child who grew up like this? is this why you are so bitchy?
It's quite simple, mothers are suppose to be there for the child while the father works.
Women on average do not work more then men, even today. It's evolution, It's been like this for thousands of years. I'm not saying that mothers never worked, cause being a mother is extremely hard. But through out history they never went out for the resources.
This is why women are healthier and live longer, it's because nature intended them to take care of the children while the men went out and got resources.
Why do you think men are bigger, stronger, faster?
Why do you think men invented just about everything?
Wake the fuck up, you are not going to work more than a man when it comes to careers. Seriously this is how the 77 cents to a dollar myth came about, and how it was found out by a lot of females that females even today when more are in college then men and have more scholarships and are accepted more due to affirmative action that they willingly choose careers that pay less.
And no man would want a man-woman thinking that she has to prove something about being a woman.
You go ahead, but by time you are forty you will not marry.
No man wants a man hating feminist. wake the fuck up, we don't find you attractive.
What evidence? Your own opinions? In the real world we call that bullshit. I want a career because i wasn't just born to reproduce. I have a mind, im intellgent, i want to contribute to society. Its not selfish because i would have a career before i had a child and do it part time once my child was born (which i said a while ago). And i would never have a nanny, i suppose with being out of touch with reality you also dont know the value of a dollar. My mom stayed home for me, but she put me in daycare starting at age 2 because i needed to socialize with other children. Soo whats so different with workinh and doing the same thing she did? "It also proves even more the importance of the father being there." So if the father is sooo important why doesn't he stay home with the kids? You also fail to realize that children start school at 4 years old and are there for the majority of the day. That allows women to work during the day and be there for their children after school. Maybe im so
"Bitchy" because you are a misogynistic unilateral thinker.
When the earth was a hunter gatherer society women got the reasources too. And no woman will ever love you because you are such a woman basher who thinks he is better than everyone else. You wake the fuck up. Look at our world. Its becoming much more open minded and you either need to get the fuck used to it or get the fuck out of it
Ohh so let me get this straight. You want a full time successful career yet you also want a child.
You're not going to have a good relationship with your child AND be a successful professional. How do you think you're going to manage both? Oh even better your mother was cheap and just put you in a daycare. Nothing wrong with socializing with children, but she did leave you to go to work.
And a father is need for approval, it is known that single mother children are more likely to get divorce and go into crime. Don't forget mental problems thefatherlessgeneration.wordpress.com/statistics/
Men need to be in a child's life. For both male and female children. The difference in gender behaviors is the reason. Woman and man are biologically different.
www.cfcidaho.org/why-children-need-male-and-female-parent
And i understand you have daddy issues. you really think a fatherless woman who has something against men is going to marry you? Also who is a man hating feminist?
Stop kidding yourself.
is going to get married*
you're wrong, my mom didn't work, so dont put words in my mouth. Maybe you need to get your eyes checked because i said i would be part time once i have a child 3 times. And i had a father at one point and all he did was beat, molest, and verbally abuse me. I want to have a husband but not if it means he will be like you or like him. Im much stronger and more independent from not having a father and i dont need anyones approval because i know right from wrong and i know when I've accomplished something. I will be successfull, and i will be a great wife and mother. I know hoe to juggle life because i already do that between high school, college, friends, and cross country. I know my limits, so i dont need a random stranger dictating them to me
I dont hate men in the slightest, three of my best friends are male, i just dont want to be around a misogynistic idiot such as yourself. Oh and my male friends, yeah theyre also feminists. Get out of conservative country and step into the real world
your om didn't work, yet still put you in daycare. ouch.
So you do have daddy issues. (or your lying).
You're going to be a great wife in your view. but it's not up to you to judge whether you are a great wife or not.
You are the one that attacked me, you called man child for no reason. You say i can't get my dick wet.
Yet at the same time you say that you are going to be a wonderful wife and mother. You are not even a good human.
And you blame men.
Again no man, in his right mind would marry a woman with daddy issues, and has a thing against men. wake up.
She put me in to socialize, as i have said a million times. And speaking behalf of being a good human or not, you're the one who created a whole take just to bash women. As i said, i dont hate men, just hate your type. Lemme put it in caps this time just so you can see. I DONT HATE MEN, JUST HATE YOUR TYPE. Those who give respect get respect. You will never get it. And daddy issues really aren't a problem considering i havemt talked to my father in 8yrs, and honestly, i dont really give a shot whether you find me suitable for marriage or not because i would never even take a glance at someone with your ideals
oh please quote me where i said i hate women or am bashing them
I only said that men are choosing nto to marry and it's because of feminism
Feminism does not speak for all women, and it's not the owner of them.
I only pointed out that logistically speaking 53% of marriages fail, and courts are prejudice against males. And feminists support this.
Because of this males don't want to marry.
And no man would ever glance at a woman who hates men like you. Seriously, marriage is not what men will think about when thinking of you. You have daddy issues, most men hate feminists, most men are not going to marry, there are more females in america then there are males.
It all adds up.
And trying to say that i won't ever find a woman is kind of funny since i'm not looking for one, i'm busy being a student and after that i'll be busy with work. If i want female attention i will pay for it, just like a traditional relationship ;) Face it, you have a lot to compete with and your feminism isn't helping
In my take i was just pointing out that woman will not have a lot of choices when it comes to men.
I never said that men don't have their problems or that i am blaming woman for anything.
I'm pointing out facts.
Do you want me to link them again? Seriously you can argue about this all day and you will lose to the fact that there are less men available for marriage.
Dear lord you're so amusing. You think at 16 im looking for a husband either? XD i dont hate men as i have said before. I think at this point its best to just drain the poison from this conversation and say that we are two very different people looking for two very different people. You dont know my whole personality, you dont know my appearance, nor do i know yours. Im just very passionate about my beliefs, so i think we both need to take a chill pill
Then why did you say that you want children are are going to marry as you put it "wayyyy" earlier then me? why are you contradicting yourself?
the only person looking for anyone here is you, i don't care.
You call me man child first and didn't want to debate and just attack me. You say i can't get my dick wet.
What exactly makes you think that marriage will simply come to you? Even if you are a physically attractive woman, eventually that will all fade away and you will be left with your personality and attitude.(unless you have Alzheimers then that fades too).
I can comfortably say that about 90% of all men either have a distaste or simply just don't like feminists.
I don't want to debate feminism or ideals. I only am pointing out that half of marriages fail, and divorce courts are relentlessly prejudice against men. That is what men look at logistically, and think to themselves (why not just have a girlfriend or not even at all and just do hookers and video games?)
anyways yeah let's just end the argument.
Yeah have fun with that then
you too babygirl.
I love you bad, bobo
You sir, are having trust issues...'nough said!
nope not at all.
again half of all marriages fail, 80% of all divorce papers served is by women. Courts are relentlessly prejudice against men.
This is called logistics.
So what if more women file for divorce? It's not like they one day wake up and decide to get a divorce out of the blue without having encountered any problems in the relationship.
Learn to use statistics wisely...
Again with the excuses for everything.
Yes there are cases where it was prudent for the woman to leave.
But not all 80% of them.
I am sorry you feel wronged but no one cares so just get used to being left and butthurt all the time. Not all of us are entitled to happy relationships... Specially not you. :D
My goodness are you mad :)
That's the thing though i don't care.
And again no emotions or sadness is coming from me. I only pointed out the fact that you and along with other feminists will simply not have a man. I'm sorry that you are offended by the fact the the playing field will be extremely competitive for you. You can call me names all you want but you won't escape the truth.
Anyways have a good day my salty friend.
Even if he did have trust issues, he has every right to.
Why not? I mean past experiences and life situations are there so we can learn from them and protect ourselves and guide us to how we want to live our lives. I was never really into men's issues or even becoming an advocate for them until I had a run in with a bad women who I was in a relationship with. We learn from life situations.
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Nice take, very well said.