I Still Want to Get Married... (Page 3)

[Crazyced]

Divorce is just way too easy to wage against it.

Plus lol @ - 30% if you make more then 100k a year. We're not debunking any myths today.

[serious]

It's an excellent take. There is nothing wrong with your thinking.

[diogonovaes]

I still believe long-term relationships can be healthy and happy. I want to get married. :D

[Scrambledagain]

I think some men get married just to stop their girlfriends from whining about getting married. hey how's Ashley Madison going 😂

[Bards]

Marriage is for real niggas only

Only tough people survive

Get bent softies

[Anonymous]

There is nothing wrong with people wanting to get married and there is nothing wrong with people who don't. Just a difference of preference.

[Anonymous]

I don't know dude, to me, marriage is huge bear trap. I'm very safe and sound until I actually step on it. I honestly believe marriage is a very very bad idea, but to each his own, good luck to those who do want to marry.

[Anonymous]

Yawn, whatever. So the demographic that marriage benefits wants to get married? Shocker.

[myTake Owner]

Bitter much? Your sort are so wrapped up in "its a money deal and nothing more," but my entire life I have been surrounded by nothing but successful life long marriages from my great grandparents on down. If my guy wants a pre-nup, I'll give him one b/c I have my own money, my own savings, my own business. If you don't want to get married, then don't. I'm not out there looking for you in the same way you sure as hell wouldn't be looking for me, so truly in the end, what does it matter to you, how I feel about wanting to get married.

[Jager66]

You realize that divorced men have their children ripped away form them, their lives become those of an indentured servant, non of their rights are enforced in the divorce, they loose their home, they loose their retirement and their depression and suicide risk skyrockets. Reducing this reality to "Bitter much? Your sort are so wrapped up in "its a money deal and nothing more" is totally wrong.

The only bad thing from divorce for the average divorced woman is heart ache, they also get cash, long term financial support, the kids, the house. If the only thing men risked was heart ache then most men would likely be happy to get married.

[Poppykate]

But here is the thing. I read an article that said while men usually are the ones to stay away from marriage, they are the ones who largely benefit from it. They experience greater sexual satisfaction, better overall health, access to greater promotions at work, perform fewer household chores. Where it is the exact opposite for women. That is why 60% of divorces are started by women.

[alfonsosloan45]

What you left out were the statistics on the divorce rate as you stay married.

[geraya-sansey]

i agree with you, whenever the man finds a girl who understand him and take care of him, then marriage is the best choice

[candyaurora]

According to the scale I have almost <5% chances of getting divorced!

[Sabretooth]

find a man who shares you views.

[abundantlyrich]

Not everyone gets to experience 'true love'. :P

[myTake Owner]

this is absolutely true, however it doesn't mean you stop looking.

[abundantlyrich]

We live in diff times... Marriage is considered a high risk investment and an emotional detriment since people change quickly and realise its just a phase.

[PizzaGuy22]

not sure if I wanna get married now

[myTake Owner]

i don't think at 18, anybody is like 100% sure they want to get married. I would expect at your age to be unsure and not want to be married just yet.

[PizzaGuy22]

no I mean like at all

[myTake Owner]

Well, again, at 18, we all say/and do a lot of things, but you have yet to experience years of living and hard life decision making and meeting all sorts of people, that's just fact. Many of my friends who said the same thing at 20 are now years married at 30, so really I take it with a grain of salt when someone in their 20's is like 'this is how my life is going to be.' LoL. Who knows, either way, but again, we'll see...

[Noxifer626]

I want to get married when I'm thirty.

[Anonymous]

Modern marriage & relationships are SHIT

[RhythmDivine]

Money maybe but college? It is unrelated.

[BackInGame]

marriage = only benefits for woman

[myTake Owner]

Men, just like women, have free will, and despite what you may think, you cannot force a man to get married if he doesn't want to. There are at least 50% of men who are married on this planet and who continue to stay married. Why do something where there were according to you, zero benefits? Why do something, as in the case of my won parents for FORTY years, if there were zero benefits for my father. Clearly that makes zero sense. If a couple is married, odds are the vast majority are sharing responsibilities, both parenting, both attending to the bills, both in committed sexual relationships with each other, and both committed to loving, supporting, and caring for one another in whichever way works for them. Even research on the subject of married men points out one of the biggest benefits to men who are married is they live about 10+ years longer then their unmarried peers.

[BackInGame]

why would I marry (support) a female who got ugly, fat and old and who was fucked by a full wagen of dicks? And then get divorced, robbing me 50% of everything and taking my children. JUST FUCKIN LOL @ marriage.

[Realfire22]

Bitter much?