So my wife has been doing things that make me think she's cheating. I haven't caught her or anything, but I have seen her texting and "kiking" a guy we both work with. But when I've tried to see the texts or even straight out asked to see them she's already deleted them. Every time I've asked why she deletes them she says there's no space on her phone to keep the texts. But we have the same phone and I have every text she's sent me for the last year and a half still on it. So I suppose my main question is what's the next step. I've confronted her more than once and get the same-ish answer every time. I've even told her it bothers me that she deletes them and all I got was a "don't worry about it". Which clearly made things worse. So any advise is appreciated.
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Sketchy. I get that memory can be limited, but if she knows you're bothered by this and is still deleting them that's very strange. She seems completely unconcerned that she may be ruining her relationship here. Besides, I thought usually people go for deleting pictures/videos on their phone (once they're saved on a computer) because those take up the most space.
Honestly, I would confront her again, but in a clear and direct way, about how suspicious you find this and that it's leading you to think she's cheating or something. Maybe then she'll get the seriousness of this and either show you and tell you she's innocent or confirm your suspicions.0