Is it wrong to ask my husband permission to dress a certain way? (Page 2)

[Lakshmi_Reddy]

yes, it's wrong. he is not school teacher to command you. but you can ask him about his opinion on the dress u wear

[malaya20]

No it is not wrong at all

[JEAII]

No its not wrong I feel like it shows respect

[reptocarl]

Yes it is bad

[Asker]

Why?

[reptocarl]

Because you're an adult and don't have to ask permission for anything

[Asker]

But he's my husband and I want his approval. I think once you're in a relationship you are not completely independent anymore. It's nice to have a shoulder to lean on

[reptocarl]

Bullshit. Permission? He's a husband not your dad or master. Grow up

[PoliceLivesMatter]

@reptocarl, your thinking is very reptilian I would say. It's an obvious gesture of consideration and care. It's not some "master" or controlling relationship.

[Asker]

@PoliceLivesMatter yeah I don't think it's controlling. I just want him to be happy with me and I don't want to upset him by wearing something that he wouldn't approve of.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yeah, though I would advise that there is a difference between this and a controlling marriage. Hope you know the difference. I don't think your personal situation will turn into one, just wanted to let you know.

[reptocarl]

@PoliceLivesMatter I have a big problem with the word "permission" she's a fucking slave using that word

[reptocarl]

But what if you liked it and he didn't