So we are being discouraged from getting married.
I still want to. My boyfriend might still too, but he said it wouldn't be anytime soon. I'm worried that the person who told us this, might convince us altogether... So I was thinking of surprising him by asking him for a commitment ceremony together instead of a legal marriage, if he would be willing to.
That's what gays and lesbians have to do right now, since Proposition 8 passed in California. Why should we be any different?
But see, the thing is, I can't ask, "Will you marry me?" Because we can't "technically" get married legally without losing benefits. But I still want to pop the question. I want to propose to him, kneeling before him on one knee. What can I say?
"Will you commit to me?" sounds too stiff.
Does anyone have any ideas?
Thank you.
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