Do you want to get married and why?

[Amanda__Murphy]

Do you want to get married? Why? And how would you like to have it, would you have a wedding or something else?

[Prettygurl12]

I'm getting married in 11 days. So... at this point it doesn't really matter if I want to or not haha

Just kidding - of course it matters. I do want to get married. Well, I want to BE married. I don't want to GET married. The whole PDA/Center of attention/Public speaking thing is not for me so I'm low key dreading the actual day (my fiance wanted a big wedding) but I'm very much enthused about afterwards where we get to be married.

We've been together since 2011 and we've known each other/had a "thing" since 2007. So it's about damn time. Plus we elected to abstain before marriage so... there's that too lmao

[potatoismee]

I do want to get married someday. I don't wanna rush it tho. I wanna get married and have a family of my own, and make it official. Sadly my culture doesn't allow me to have a long relationship before marriage so I'll have to rush and get into one, however I don't do that unless I'm sure about the person.
As for a wedding - never really wanted one. I'm not a weddings person and if I have one i would prefer it to be a really small wedding with not so many people because marriage is not about the wedding to me.
But if my partner wants something else we will have to discuss it so that we are both satisfied.

[Amanda__Murphy]

I can understand the timing thing, I would want to be with the person I’m marrying for a very long time first

[potatoismee]

Same here. And hopefully that happens for you!!

[TisforTori]

I’m engaged and planning our wedding now. Personally I’d never thought much of marriage or a wedding before I met my fiancé. I’m excited to have a party celebrating our life together. Having the support of our friends and family to enjoy that day with us will be worth all the hassle of budgets for food, venue, decorations etc

[Leimarie]

Yes, but only if it’s with the right guy. I am iffy about spending so much money just on a party, so I’d be ok with eloping or having a small celebration surrounded by loved ones.

[TheJoe92]

I think so, more and more people are turning against the idea of marriage because of different reason. I know that many single people live a very sparkling life alone, but it's about what perspective you want to assume. As far as I am concerned, I prefer to do some "sacrifices", but do my best to leave a dinasty after me , a dinasty that will keep a good memory of me when I'll be gone, than living a part of my life enjoying it , but as as soon as I get old enough not to go drinkin, partying , traveling and fucking like many single people do, then I'll have no one beside me.

[AxlStahlmann]

Marriage is like an official agreement between a couple (regardless of sex attraction), so that's one thing I'd go for. Nothing big and fancy, though. I'd rather spend all my money on the bride than getting a cake and renting a place for a reception. (Unless the bride wants that, thennnnnn something would have to be worked out. Lol)
If she was down on just being an unmarried couple, though, I wouldn't mind. Makes it easier.

[Zanezane]

I think marriage is stupid its a fantasy for most people, be with the same person for the rest of your life , think about that, i feel like most people get married becuz they still going through their lovey dovey phase in the relationship, but that shit fades it always does, and then what after that?

[Anonymous]

Of course! It's my dream to get married. To me, a life lived alone is not a life lived. I can't wait for the day where I have my only little children running up to me. Warms my heart just thinking about it. My ideal wedding would be something small with just close family and friends at my church. Nothing grandiose. Still waiting for the right woman to cross my path!

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

If I’m worthy finding love again, I’d love to but if I don’t find them then I’ll just try to keep living life helping everyone and experiencing as much as I can

[fauchelevent]

I’m neutral to it. I mean, I guess if I had a choice, I’d prefer to get married than not but I’m also happy not to get married, it’s just not a big deal to me.

[SmoMan71]

Five years ago I would have said that I had no plans on getting married. Now I am engaged. It’s going to be a relatively small wedding.

[Amanda__Murphy]

Aw congratulations, I wish you the best

[SmoMan71]

Well, thank you.

[AbdKilani]

yes i want to
Why : because i want to have one only
I don't relive having more than one relationship

[Amanda__Murphy]

Well you can still have a loyal strong relationship with someone without needing to get married at the end of the day it is just a title

[AbdKilani]

not for me, i want her to be mine as i will be hers in everything , we will share legal and emotional no barriers between us

[MrKinktastic]

Yes, for the second time.

Id have a small family and close friends ceremony and blow the money on an amazing honeymoon.

[HamAndCheese]

Yes, but no wedding. Do I look like I'm made of money? We'll get the papers signed, maybe go to some small church, and maybe have a modest party afterwards. I want a wife to provide me with mental/emotional comfort and support.

[Cocacolamm]

Sure, I'll marry you - you are kind of cute. Bit forward though asking me on GaG but thats cool.

[Amanda__Murphy]

Cause that’s exactly what I meant by my question 😂😂

[Cocacolamm]

You don't need to be shy, I already accepted :)

[Amanda__Murphy]

I mean do you want to get married to someone you’re already romantically involved with not me 😂

[Cocacolamm]

Nope, I only have eyes for you my dear.

[btgs012]

Yes because i would like to spend the rest of my life with someone who will love me and i can love them. I know that probability of being married for more than 10 years is very lucky and very rare but i can dream.

[Potatocream]

Dont really care too much about weddings tbh but more being together with a girl for the rest if my life with kids and own home and travelling the world is something I really want

[Amanda__Murphy]

And why marriage, because it’s more official?

[Potatocream]

No in my opinion its just very expensive and unnecessary and if It were to end bad then all my possessions etc wouldn't be in jeopardy if I meet the wrong girl

[zombiebacon21]

Yeah like to think I find someone I want spend my life with and whatever she want something big and show off or something at comic Con as long as she would say yes I don't care lol

[Decentguy]

yes because i love her and i want to make a small family with her, and also im old school and i believe in marriage

[Amanda__Murphy]

So would you have a wedding?

[Decentguy]

of course

[IlyaTheImpaler]

Yes. So I don't have to find a wife anymore. Small private wedding, preferably eloping.

[A-man-22]

No, marriage destroys men. Women may want to, but the fact is marriage doesn't benefit guys more than a regular relationship.

[hazfire]

No, girlfriend with paperwork. Doesn't change our feelings toward eachother.

[A-man-22]

Totally agree, a piece of paper and a ring shouldn't change your love to anyone.

[vsbw14]

Marriage is an institution who wants to live in an institution?

[bklynbadboy1]

Yes cause I want somebody to share my life with and someone to love and hopefully I get that same love in return

[13name13]

I would live to get married. Cause I just want one true memory of my wife. And why I would never hurt her

[kyla12]

Absolutely marriage is beautiful. The thought of marrying my best friend and taking his last name, would be perfect ❤ and id get to call him my husband ❤