If men don’t care about a woman’s degree, then why most successful peoples marry each other? (Page 2)
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It depends on the people and what wavelength they’re on. Most people are going to want to be around the similar energy they themselves have. Couples that have similar thoughts, beliefs, goals etc stay together.
Because they come to the same places (conferences and stuff). There's a reason why famous people get married to other famous people.
It might also be because successful people are often more intelligent than the average person, and they want a partner with similar level of intelligence.
I think you misunderstand men. It's not that we don't care about your accomplishments. We just don't judge you on them like you do us. It's more important to us that you be a good person than a successful person. Because to us being a good person makes you successful.
I think women want that too. Young girls often go through a bad boy phase like young guys often go through a numbers phase , but as maturity sets in I sense they both want more similar things than not.
If a woman is successful its really good bc god forbid something happens to her husband, she will be able to sustain the family financially on her own. Furthermore, it makes sure the babies are smart, organized, and successful too
that's sooo totallly over the top.. love... well if my view of it can he held to merit. well it depens on a person intrest an investment
I beleave after all if said an done higher ups go with higher ups cause life styles being closer than others makes there wants simular an so they settle for money ideally dishonest at home or controling . never able to talk about jack... nothing.. or they want it super simple cause there fullfilled in ways they never find with a person
Because intelligent people are stimulated by intelligent people. The degree is not the important part; it's what she does with the degree that we find attractive.
What she does with it? Surely the degree is important then as she couldn’t do something with it if she never had it.
@RaindropSparkle lol. It’s like saying, we don’t love pretty women, we just love how their skin is smooth, their hair shiny, and their bodies sexy, but it’s not their beauty that attract us
Exactly, if you find the profession attractive you need the degree to get there.
Not really. A lot of men see getting a degree as a sort of luxury, or as a surface level way to determine if we have something in common with a woman. I know a whole lot of women with great degrees who haven't done anything with them.
If a degree is the vehicle by which you get somewhere, what you do with it is the destination. I'm currently enamored with a woman who taught herself everything you would learn at beauty school, and is an MUA and Beautician. She only officially has a high school degree, but she's extraordinarily intelligent, and has a literary comprehension that would put her on parr with most Lawyers. She just never got around to going to school.
We actually care about how educated our partners are.
Imagine being a doctor and having a wife who can't even spell. THat would suck
This had more to do with socioeconomic status than anything else. Correlation does not equal causation.
I care about a woman's degree and success. I think it is attractive.
I’ve also had men ask me out saying they like a woman with ambition 🤷🏼♀️
@RaindropSparkle Oh yeah it makes sense for a lot of us guys.
Yeah. Can I just ask why that is in your opinion?
@RaindropSparkle I personally think they have a better sense of identity, and the fact that they have ambition shows that they are interested in things.
Yeah I don’t think you’re wrong there tbh.
They marry successful people for social status and cheat on them lol
Yup lol
They more than likely meet people in that job. Ex. Doctor meets spouse in hospital (nurse/doctor).
It is an intelligence factor as if you are smart holding a conversation with an idiot will prove nearly impossible
Because women don't go for men that make less than them. It's due to female preference, not male preference.
Good question. I think like does attract like more often than not.
Successful people are around each other more than unsuccessful people.
They do care. At least here where i live. Even their parents care about the woman’s degree. They can easily look down upon if the woman doesn't have equal or close education and socio economic level.
Because, they probably met the woman they were going to marry at college or work.
Men are not monolithic. A small % of men are what you consider "successful." The larger % of men do not care.
They probably have more in common. Being successful requires certain personality traits, and two successful people are likely to have said trait.
Men do cared all the time about woman degree. It is important, not to be a star, but to have a certain degree of education, preferred higher.