What would you do if you met the love of your life but one or both of you were already married?

[JayMichigan616]

Maybe you're happy maybe you're not maybe you thought you we're happy you tell you until you came across the real thing. Maybe you got married super young or for the wrong reasons or you were looking for something completely different at the time and have since grown. I've personally never been married I'm not even sure I've ever been in love and I know a lot of people who stay together for their children. Which in my opinion can do more harm than good. They say when you know you know.

[coachTanthony]

------------You are saying two different things here. If you are "happily" married and you meet someone you are attracted too that is fine... it's what you do about it that makes the difference. You obviously are human and will feel things for others but you need to squash them before it gets out of hand.

Obviously if you are "unhappily" married and you meet someone you are attracted too that is fine too... just leave your marriage first which is basically what you should of done to begin with instead of waiting for someone else to come along.

So I don't believe people are just going to meet the so called "love" of their life and have this conundrum strike them out of the blue. It's a bit more subtle of you being attracted to someone else. That is just being human.

Mother nature has a strange way of putting people in front of and casting those butterflies... she doesn't care if you are taken or not. That is up to us to understand that there is more than one person on the planet that you will have feelings for...

So what are you going to do? Chase butterflies your entire life? I hope not.

[Syrian_survivor]

Here's what I would do:
1. Go to the bathroom
2. F a p
3. Come to my senses and realize I was just using the wrong head to think 🙂
4. Go back home to my wife and make her feel loved and special because SHE is my true soulmate.

Otherwise, if my marriage is bad, I'd beat myself up and deal with it because I was a dumbass.

[MissKittyz]

That's what happened with my current partner. He was married when we met. Ended up getting a divorce and now he is with me.

He got married way too young and quick and had a very unhappy relationship.

[JayMichigan616]

Thats deep. Did you feel like a homewrecker? In hindsight you werent wrong but you had to feel some type of way as it shook out. How did you deal with it?

[MissKittyz]

Not really. I knew the marriage was going to fail soon enough even if I wasn't in the picture.

I guess I just made him realize that settling with someone isn't always a good idea and that there is someone special out there for all of us. And I felt I was the one for him. And he was the one for me. Now, our relationship is extremely amazing and I've never seen him so happy and in love as he is right now with me :) so no regrets at all.

[jennifer_bloom]

I would thank God for the guys that are still single and move on. God is good so he doesn’t always give us what we want because a good parent says no if their child wants to eat chocolate for breakfast.

[btbc92]

That's is NOT the love of your life! Please don't bring that toxic fictional crap into real life. If your so scared you would be with the wrong person PLEASE stay SINGLE! ALL those things you write are excuses for people who can't be responsible and still wants to play games.

[ZELLxoxo]

When you love someone you only remember their good qualities. When you hate someone you forget their good qualities and only remember the bad qualities of that person.

If I ever began to fell for some guy while being married, I would cut off all and any contact with that guy and focus completely on my husband while not forgetting his goodness.

Temptation is fun. But to let it destroy love is foolish.

[biancalovexo]

If they’re the love of your life, you would get out of the current unhappy relationship to be with the love of your life.

[biancalovexo]

If that person really is the love of your life, you’ll end up together eventually.

[arabgoddess]

Its happened to me and you can't do anything about it!!!

[Anonymous]

You leave the one you’re with to be with the one you love rather than stay married and pretending to be in love and happy with someone you don’t want to be with.

[Anonymous]

I would do what I'm already doing, as this is what has already happened.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't chase after them, I'd move on if they were married. I'm not about to be a homewrecker.

[Anonymous]

My husband should be the love of my life otherwise I wouldn't have married him

[Gedaria]

Walk on, for get him...