This is supposedly what happened with my economics teacher. I don’t think it’s possible.
Do you believe it’s possible to fall in love and marry someone in nine months?
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Yes, most definitely. I would have if I could have.
I was in love with a girl and knew I needed to ask her if we could be a couple.
We did.
Two months later, I knew that I wanted to marry her.
We were together for 17 months when she dumped me 29.5 years ago.
I eventually "moved on" but I never recovered. In my soul, the world is insanely wrong because I am not her husband and that, as the decades fly by and I approach death, I have a difficult time resigning myself to this fact.
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My Mom and Dad use to live in the same apartment building for a bit. My Dad liked her and flirted with in the hall. He use to BBQ out on the walkway hanging out with his friends and drinking beers and stuff like that. She claimed she didn’t want anything to do with him. So eventually they move to different locations for whatever reason and 3 years later my Dad was driving down US1 in his car with music blasting on his way to a party and my Mom and her friend chased my Dad down in his car honking their horn at him to pull over. He did, he said he was going to a party and they wanted to go with him so they did. Withing several months My Mom and Dad were living together. Within 6 months they were planning their wedding. They got married, had 3 kids, were basically codependent and inseparable, ended up running a business together, spent every waking hour together, and were in love until death separated them. Women never know what they want...
I would say even less than that. And of course, there are couples you see together for years but there's nothing there. They divorce right after marriage.
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Maybe but I don’t think it’s a good idea. You should get to know each other more, experience more together.
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I think someone could fall in love in 6 months. Planning a wedding in three months would be a real push.
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Of course. Some people fall in love and get married in a week and then get divorced the next one.
Sometimes it actually works out.
If someone is right for you and you are right for them there is no reason it should take a long time, the only problem is that most people change their minds so it's safer to wait and see if they are still around in a few years before you buy a house together. -
it depends. you have to separate the idea of love and a relationship. people can love each other but different life goals or mannerisms that could make living together difficult long-term. there's no such thing as a soul mate, and it's a bad idea to start a relationship thinking that love alone will hold the partnership together. 9 months is enough time to know someone closely, but you would have to try living together for a while to see if you can get used to physically being around him indefinitely.
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Yes. A long time ago, that wouldn't have been considered particularly fast.
I wouldn't recommend people get married that fast but there's no reason to think people doing so aren't being genuine.
Falling in love doesn't take years. The "years" is to see how someone behaves when life hits road bumps and you're passed the honeymoon stage. -
yes, my dad went on 3 dates with my mom knew her only 4 months and married her they were married 37 years till he passed then she did shortly after.
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My parents got engaged after 2 weeks and married after 2 months and have been together for going on 27 years so I dunno man...
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I think so. When you date enough people you hit the person thats different from all the rest who you would never want to give up. Its more than just feelings its a sure thing
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Yeah people have fallen and married people in way less of a time period
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Possible yes but it's most likely a decision you end up regretting later.
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Nine months? As long as that? Most good relationships are sealed within a month or two.
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It's possible but I think it's stupid. Bearly know the person
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If your stupid and wanna lose money prenub or no prenub.
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It's possible. Frankly, if you haven't decided in a year... I don't know what you're doing.
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I dont know about falling in love but in our culture many couples marry in a short time
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Yeah doesn't take long to fall in love but staying in love
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I fell in love in seconds and married in less.
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Its rare but yeah its possible
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I do believe it's possible.
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It can happen in 6 weeks.
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I'd say that's a yes, but it's a slim chance
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