If you're a man, it's way overrated. It's guaranteed slavery for most men. The little lady is going to get her man into a new expensive house/mortgage, some cars financed for nearly a decade and massive credit card debt to keep her happy so she can weaponize sex to keep her husband on thin ice.
Then as the poor husband has to work long hours and press for promotions to pay for her spending. But she justifies it because she making him. and their children a home. Then when he is never home, she will likey get bored at somepoint, and she will window shop on Tinder because all her friends are talking up all the hunks out there who are a swipe away.
For half of the men,. it will end in divorce. He will lose his kids, becauseas time goes on, for most broken homes, he will only see his kids every other weekend and once a week, if that lucky. Many guys become hard drinkers and suicide is a major factor for men during this time because it all becomes clear that his whole purpose is to be a provider for everyone but himself, and everyone will hate him for it.
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Marriage is unnecessary unless you accept its propose is creating a stable environment for children and future financial stability.
Most people are not going into it anymore primarily because its been redefined to be about "love". A ridiculous idea but nonetheless popular as pushed by institutional elites for a 100 years now. As if we needed the permission of the State to love anyone or could be restricted to loving only a single person.
There is a difference between needing to love your wife, and making her your wife because you love her.
Underrated nowadays. I'm married now, but I remember my sister telling me 'marriage is just a paper'. I told her it's a very important paper with many benefits and it is legally recognized under the law, unlike boyfriend/girlfriend. She said relationships don't need labels. To her It's alright to spend a lifetime with someone and still be their girlfriend. A lifetime, as in 30+ years. No legal title. No ring. No automatic legal benefits & claim you are entitled to as a their wife/husband. The lack of weight your title holds in important situations. Like... come on? Is this what's progressive?
If I'm spending my entire life with someone. Birthing our children, supporting & loving them, growing old together... a ring? That's the bare minimum.
Honestly yes in most cases. Like half get divorced and only god knows how many of the people staying married are unhappy in their marriages. And regular relationships are even worse than marriages, almost all of them end sooner or later and in many cases they lead to nothing but emotional damage and/or drama.
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I actually feel like it's underrated.
Just wait 30-40 years, and see how many old single people dying alone. There are a lot of people right now, forgoing marriage and relationships. Soon we will have the same problem Japan and some other countries are having.
A ton of old single people that can't work, and a handful of healthy working adults having to pay for all of them. The decline of the family will be the downfall of this country.Nope I don’t think it gets talked about in a positive way enough in our society I think it needs to be pushed more but lots of people are into hookup culture instead of marriage
Even tho I don't want to be married I think a good marriage is beautiful and underrated today.
Marriage is for SUCKERS it's a big SCAM that fleeces people of their money
and then the DIVORCE INDUSTRY fleeces them for even MORE MONEYNot really.. I think most married people aren't really in it for the person.. If it was,
it would be greatSo this is just my opinion. I think if you are a couple who want to have children
together, you should get married and be committed to the family. That is the ONLY
reason I see to get married.no not necessarily... it might not be suitable for everyone but that doesn't make it overrated
yeah. i've always thought it was so weird that when people looove each other so much, they just have to get the government involved.
Yes. Most young women dont want kids which is the point of marriage. So the people who do get married do so at 30 or 35, think about having kids, end up not having kids or only having one, and then jumping ship to go party again.
No, I don’t think so.
No, getting married is people's business. Animals cannot marry.
it is till one partner dies and the legal crap goes nuts
happy marriage gives you heaven unhappy marriage gives you hell
With the right man... no its not.
No, I don't think so.
No, but marriage is not for everyone.
marriage serves only the interests of women
Not really.
Not at all!
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